Confusion situation with two sisters

[rainman256]

Okay, so I have a question.

 

Perhaps I am putting too much thought into it, and not enough action (I tend to do that sometimes...)

 

So here's the thing. There's two women, and they're sisters. One is 20 almost 21, the other is 19. The 20 year old I think is interested in me, but I don't feel the attraction to be all there. We have some things in common, but I don't really feel it would work out. Everyone around us thinks we should be with each other, but deep down, I don't think it's the right match.

 

The one who's 19, I am really attracted to. But I can't tell if she feels the same way. I think if she believes her sister is in to me, she wouldn't make a move, which is what I think is happening. And I don't know if this makes a difference or not, but I'm 26. I've been told I don't look it at all (thank God for a baby-face and good skin). And we all get along REALLY well. I talked with a friend of mine, and she said the age difference doesn't mean squat as long as there's a bond there.

 

I don't want to create a weird/odd feeling between any of us, and I am very confused as to what to say to both of them.

 

Any ideas? I would be greatly appreciative!! This one's thrown me for a loop.

[magda]

I have a sister who is a year and a half old than me. She tells me everything, unfortunately, so if she was into a guy, I'd know about it. And, I'd break the absolutely rock-solid code of sisterhood by ever making a move in any way until she had forgotten you. And, every guy who has touched my sister in anyway is off limits to me for life by my own doing. Doesn't matter how great we'd be. That's just the way it is.

 

So if those sisters are anything like me, then you should totally skip town on the older sister if you're interested in ever having something with the younger. Play it cool until the older is otherwise engaged, then make your move. If in a moment of weakness you decide to make out with the older, anything you could have had with the younger is vanished! Forever!! Don't even bother asking for permission - permission NOT GRANTED. 'Cause it's practically incest. And no man in the world gets to brag on having made out with both of us. That's me, anyway.

 

Although my sister broke the code on me before - there is one guy who has kissed both of us. It was not all that great for our sisterhood. And that guy is long since discarded as scum.