My ex gf cheated on me and changed from good to worse and i still love her?

[Denashi1892]

ey, my ex girlfriend changed alot becuase she thinks shes going to die and im still in love with her and trying to come to her senses and get her back?? Should i give up and move on?? Im just too confused!!

Alot has happend and she last emailed me to say good bye and that she is going to die and has breast cancer. I still love her very much and she has cheated on me with my friends in the past and i forgaved her when she said how sorry she left. Later after this shes gotten worse. she has not been going to school, she added more of my guy friends on facebook, i ended up breaking up with my new current girlfriend before becuase i was confused and i still was in love with my ex. It is becuase she was the only girl i loved the most that treated me like i was her everything and so did i. I knew her for almost 2 years now and it was not the first she cheated, it was twice...I tried to move on and ignore her emails but i didnt.

 

 

She gotten worse, added more of my friends on facebook and even flirted with alot of them and i caught her doing it on one of my mutual friends wall, i liked the post and she deleted it! I tried my best to talk to her out of it, just becuase you have breast cancer and other issues with seizures and infection in your ear doesnt mean you shouldnt go to school, get drunk smoke and drink, and change her attitude and her behavioir. Her parents cant even trust me becuase of the stuff and lies shes said and on top of that they dont know whats going on with her. She even blocked me the last time i told her to leave me be, after i told her and realized what she was doing she blocked me on facebook so i couldnt see her continuing to add all my friends and flirt with them. She basically became a big flirt girl and screwed her life so much becuase shes so depressed and says she hates her self for changing?! Should i try to go after her and try to put her to her senses before its to late. She was being mean to me too, and every time i told her my issues, she barely cared or listend. She was always so busy talking to all the guys like she wants that much attention and thinking its alright to flirt and send naked pics and masturbate and say shes horny to them randomly like a prostitute or a webcam model would do. It just hurt me so much to see her this way...btw shes 16 and im 18. Please help me with this, its driving me crazy, im thinking if i try she might hurt me even more or end up dating another guy, i just dont know what to do.. is this worth stressing out for to chase after her, she barely cared about anything i said and i did my best to help and i still love her...but the way she treats me now..its just hurts alot..I want her to just be herself again, she said she still have feelings for me too just like how i do but idk what to do.

 

Whenever i fall for another girl i contantly get something that reminded of what me and my ex gf use to do all the time..I was really in love with her all the time the way we send eachother gifts, letters, and poems to eachother. We were in love alot..its just so hard to forget. Ive tried psychics, to talk with an old friend, i just dont want to feel or be the guy to go back and try and most likely get hurt even more if she is hitting on other guys out of depression and being a desprate whore...She has turned to one becuase she flirted alot with me and called me baby even the time i was with my new gf... I felt so bad and it keeps bothering me. Just becuase of all the things she said her family and parents cant even trust me but doesnt know what shes doing with her life and throwing it away like this..Should i talk with her and try again, every time i wanted to move on she comes back out of the blue emails me or messages me, text etc, on how she misses me and crap and does this behind my back and think its okay to change. Whats funny is that she said she use to hate girls who were sluts and whores and girls who bascially was too submissive to guys. And shes become the type to drink alot and do this and not go to school.. I want to help her, i prayed everyday, i just dont know what i should do...Part of me says move on and forget her and part of me says try something but i will hurt myself more to try and idk what she is doing right now...She was never this way until now. Please someone help?!

 

I just feel like whenever i think about this issues, especially the jealous guy whos trying to confuse her and tell her not to be with me. She shouldnt do this..if she loved me alot she would have changed and listend to me, its like shes confused alot and went from a christian angel, to a lustful immature whore...I didnt want to tell her what she was becuase she hates the truth and cries and even told me once before the reason she transfer schools becuase their was guys who called her a slut and a whore and other hurtful names. She told me how she was hurt and shes still continuing this...:'( She doesnt even care about me like she did and i do. I want to help her but my friend said dont do this getting risk to be more hurt again. She said she still loves me too, weve been connected so much and she was the first girl that saw me and loved me so much for who i was and was with eachother for almost 2 years before until she started doing this and breaking up and continuing over and over..i just dont know anymore.

Edited November 28, 2011 by Denashi1892

[creighton0123]

You should ask your friends to block her. They are your friends, not hers, and she is acting very crazy.

 

You want to help her. That's admirable, but you cannot force her to accept your help. If she wants to be self destructive and wallow in her own self-pity because she's sick, there's little you can do to stop her.

 

She is correct, though. If she continues this bad behavior (drugs, alcohol) while receiving chemo or radiation, she will die.

 

Let her parents take care of her. She's 16 and their responsibility, not yours. You should move on.

[FitChick]

Maybe the cancer has metastasized to her brain and she can't help it.

[norajane]

Dude, get over her. You call her a slut and a whore - you don't love her.

 

And you shouldn't. She cheated on you. Twice.

 

Love yourself more, and stop trying to "save" the "whore". You aren't god.