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Well she wanted space. I told her that I loved her and that I hope that her heart found its way back to me. I know it has only been a week but I know that she isnt coming back. I have so many feelings right now. I want to be mad at her even though I am not. There was no cheating dishonesty or anything I think that she just thinks that we are on two seperate paths and that it will be too hard to try to keep a long distance relationship going.

 

I am moving to the Mid West in August and she was on board to go with. A couple of weeks ago she said that she was scared about moving and didnt know if we had what it took to last. I expressed my love for her and did and said everything I could to reassure her that as long as we were together that we would be happy. I think it was just too scary for her.

 

She has kept me in limbo for a week and I have come to the conclusion that a week is enough. I HAVE BEEN GOING CRAZY! (I need to close this issue in my head if I am ever going to heal) If we were going to try to get through this it would have happened already.... love doesnt need time off. I have some of her things and told her that I would like to get them to her. Of course she said she was busy this weekend and Sunday was the only day she was able to do it. I do have plans on Sunday but I need to see her face to face in order to have this conversation I need clouser. I am leaving for the Mid West on Tues to move some of my things and I am then coming bk down south for the rest of the summer.

 

I was so sure about this she was the one :( and it all came out of no where! It hurts. How can I start to heal? I am still so much in love.

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I was so sure about this she was the one and it all came out of no where! It hurts. How can I start to heal? I am still so much in love.

 

My ex broke up with me by surprise also. Take it day by day.

 

You will find happiness someday. For now take care of yourself. Get the closure you deserve and begin to move on. It's hard I know, but you have to understand that there is nothing you can do. Why sit around and think about what could have been?

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