I think I've already gave him permission to have his cake and eat it too

[Nubyan]

Honestly ! I am the other woman... and he has a woman, that he has been with for awhile more than one year less than two we have been dating for about 4 months and 2 months out of the 4 we have been together whether we are intimate or not I have been spending a great deal of time with this man and vice versa the woman that he is with lives in another city than him and I and she comes over to visit one day out of the week sometimes every week or every other week. Him I spend hours on the phone day and night sometimes even when he is with her and she maybe in the next room asleep or even in the mall together in separate stores I'm afraid of what I am feeling for him and I know that I have already given him permission to have his cake and eat it to and we often have conversations about our situation and he constantly tells me that ~ ~ ~ to be continued....

[Debster]

I am confused.

Is this what you mean?

 

He is in a LDR with another woman he has been with for between 1-2 years.

You have been with him for 4 months and have been intimate with him for two months?

 

Honey, not only did you give him the cake - he's already eaten it.