intuition Posted November 29, 2011 Share Posted November 29, 2011 Hello, I have been dating with this girl for 1.5 years now. she is the first girl i slept with. I'm 26, and she is 23. About 2-3 months into the relationship she kept on saying that i should test the waters (sex only with other girls), but i always put it aside, because i thought that it would be considered cheating. Throughout the relationship she has kept on stating the fact that she would rather that i test what's out there now rather then later. Therefor i came up with the idea that i would feel more comfortable doing a girl with her. At first she seemed hesitant, because it is extremely complicated to setup, but she seemed pretty interested about the idea. I've also warned her that if she opens that door for me to fool around, that i wouldn't open the door for her. She said it was fine because she has been with men in the past (before our relationship). Therefor it isn't the same. I think that the she likes the sense of competition that it would bring, because after texting back and forth about the 3some all day. When i arrived at home she jumped on me for satisfaction, and would be like this is what another girl would do, but i would do it like this. Also that night she had the biggest O of her life (I usually always give her one), but she said it like nothing she had ever felt before. What do you guys/girls think? Should i open the door and test the waters, should we try to setup a 3some, or should i just ignore what she says. Thank you Link to post Share on other sites
SoMovinOn Posted November 29, 2011 Share Posted November 29, 2011 In a few instances, it works out for people, but, most often, involving more people in your relationship just adds problems and drama. Only you two can decide if this is something that works for you. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveTKO Posted November 30, 2011 Share Posted November 30, 2011 (edited) Threesomes are fun and exciting, but your relationship with your mate has to be very strong to even want to consider dabbling with this kind of experimentation. I have been the other man in two different MFM 3-somes. Both of the experiences were fun and exciting, although it almost broke up a marriage for one couple. You can't undo what you have done, and you don't know how you're going to react after the fact. I advise against it Edited November 30, 2011 by LoveTKO Link to post Share on other sites
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