Artie Lang Posted August 29, 2012 Share Posted August 29, 2012 If you want to negate their ability to "hold this over you"...you pre-emptively inform your H of the truth. Be honest and up front...don't lie or it will likely come back to bite you...but do so in your own controlled environment and setting so that you can help steer the outcome of this revelation. this is exaclty what i was getting at. she(OM's spouse) sounds like she has it in for you, for whatever reason. if what you say is true, and she can pull your profile up because of your business, it's a safe bet they don't believe you're divorced. you're setting yourself up to be "outed" once again. this time, there might not be a happy ending. you should come clean now, and take your power back from these two. OM was seeing atleast 4 other owmen (that I knew about) during the year of the A and yet, you still kept a physical relationship with him. WOW! you were one of many. who is this guy..... Don Draper? Link to post Share on other sites
Author weedsandposies Posted August 30, 2012 Author Share Posted August 30, 2012 and yet, you still kept a physical relationship with him. WOW! you were one of many. who is this guy..... Don Draper? LOL... well, now we know what your type is! Um, no... my first NC was after he told me about these *special* people. I wrote about here and was slapped, chewed up and spat out by LS for expecting loyalty out of an A/OM situation. It's been almost 3 weeks of silence from exOM wife. So far so good. Link to post Share on other sites
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