RockGuy87 Posted November 29, 2011 Share Posted November 29, 2011 (edited) I posted my story earlier. But I have new info. Some of my family has talked some sense into me and found out that I was in a way smothering. I'm scheduled and she is real fly on the go. I have always been strict this way and I want to change. I wish to be more laid back and just do random things. I have often been shy and not very outgoing so I have never been this way. We have been done for 4 days. She left me with that she loved me, I would always be her baby, but that she just couldn't. She has made comments on Facebook about her having a rough time. Haven't talked to her in a couple of days. Do I contact with an apology? Any hope? Please. We were almost together for one year. Edited November 29, 2011 by RockGuy87 Link to post Share on other sites
John123 Posted November 30, 2011 Share Posted November 30, 2011 Definitely not!! Do not do anything for a few weeks. Let her contact you. Let things happen as they should, whether she contacts you or not. It will be beneficial in the long run. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RockGuy87 Posted November 30, 2011 Author Share Posted November 30, 2011 (edited) Thanks for the replies guys. Im not friends with her on fb but some mutual friends are and they told me today this is what she posted "Because days come and go...but my feelings for you are forever....one last kiss." Keep going? Gah I know they say to wait on them to contact but im the one that messed up here.... Edited November 30, 2011 by RockGuy87 Link to post Share on other sites
jordjones Posted November 30, 2011 Share Posted November 30, 2011 In the grand scheme of things, what would it possibly hurt to wait a week or two? Trust me, what you will say to her will evolve over that time, and with time will come greater clarity. Use this time to think more critically about how you need to change, and begin to take action. In the end, talk is cheap. She will be much more receptive by witnessing change. Link to post Share on other sites
Author RockGuy87 Posted November 30, 2011 Author Share Posted November 30, 2011 Jones you are exactly right. But without being around her its kind of hard to show that change. Im changing with or without her. All there is to it! Not even for someone else but so I can be someone that I much rather be. I feel I miss out on a lot because I "go by the book" almost like Jim Carrey in "Yes Man". Lol. Link to post Share on other sites
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