Ruby_shoes Posted December 2, 2011 Share Posted December 2, 2011 (edited) Hi all Just thought I'd check in. I've been having a few down days and wondered if it was all normal sorry if it's not the right forum I feel more at home here. I'm glad to report that things with SO have improved vastly, in just a few months we've worked really hard. I've been to MC and planned events and adventures, I've read tons of books (the older ones such as Shirley Glass and John Gottman I've found the best if that helps anyone - they are based on years of research and aimed at couples together) and I'm feeling hopeful. It's not by any stretch easy but i am totally committed to searching for answers as to what was happening in me and fighting those demons. I know now this was more about issues I had than issues in my R, it just felt so overwhelming and right. Funny how the brain can play these tricks. I am really searching to wipe out my issues and not seek answers outside of me. I've learnt more about me than I've ever learnt and about love and R's too. I know what makes a g Edited December 2, 2011 by Ruby_shoes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ruby_shoes Posted December 5, 2011 Author Share Posted December 5, 2011 Hi all Just thought I'd check in. I've been having a few down days and wondered if it was all normal sorry if it's not the right forum I feel more at home here. I'm glad to report that things with SO have improved vastly, in just a few months we've worked really hard. I've been to MC and planned events and adventures, I've read tons of books (the older ones such as Shirley Glass and John Gottman I've found the best if that helps anyone - they are based on years of research and aimed at couples together) and I'm feeling hopeful. It's not by any stretch easy but i am totally committed to searching for answers as to what was happening in me and fighting those demons. I know now this was more about issues I had than issues in my R, it just felt so overwhelming and right. Funny how the brain can play these tricks. I am really searching to wipe out my issues and not seek answers outside of me. I've learnt more about me than I've ever learnt and about love and R's too. I know what makes a g Just logged in.... Not sure what happened to the rest of my post o_O Oh well..... Link to post Share on other sites
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