A friend or not a friend?

[yolatanga]

i have been where you are... and the roller coaster is so yukky at times... But it does get better... My guy ended up with his ex (they are still together now) i see them a bit cause we play at the same sport centre once a week... I keep telling myself you cant make anyone care about you and if they show you they dont then do everything to stop caring yourself... It doesnt happen fast but you start to feel better, you dont even feel like txting or emailing most of the time cause the effort is to much (whether he replies or not) Spend the time on you... Focus on you, do something different or new or random... anything to change it up.

 

I sent him one last e-mail telling him that this is the best move for both of us and while he was away I was already moving on. I finally met some men. That was during the time I had no clue he was ignoring me. I was very kind and wished him well for the new yr. Far be it for me to waste another second on this immature man. When I see him which unfortunately I will. I will go about being happy and not caring. Let him go back to his doomed for failure relationship. I opened the door wider for him. (still pissy about this whole thing)

[snowflakes88]

I think you have to stop making it about his ex. I don't want to sound harsh, but it doesn't sound as if he'd be interested in being with you even if she wasn't in the picture. Would you really want him to just be sleeping with you until a woman he really wants to be with comes along? If it's not the ex, it would be someone else. Seriously, let this go. No more emails, no more texts, no more. Let it go.

[yolatanga]

I never heard or saw him again after the 18th of December. For the first time I saw him last night. He sat two seats away from me. Never said a word. Totally ignored me. I'm not sure he even looked at me. Unbelievable. WTH? Someone explain this childish behavior to me. I can comprehend it. Thanks.