AlexisMacabre Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 ok so this has nothing to do with getting back together with an ex but its more of a curiosity i have about the term "Actions over Words" like in a specific scenario what would this mean and if any of you could give me any opinions or thoughts it would be highly appreciated! ok the scenario: (the words) lets say that the girl and her ex met up one day and ended up having sex with eachother and like the next day she asked him if he felt anything during or after or if he had any feelings about it at all and he answers saying that there were no feelings involved on his part and that it was just like an accidental booty call. (the actions) lets say that before everything happened the girls ex started tickling her and messing around trying to make her laugh and then they started kissing and thats what led to them having sex and during and after the sex he kept kissing her neck and her back and shoulders and after he continued to keep kissing her throughout the time they were hanging out and hugging her and touching her up until he left to go home. his words obviously dont support his actions. also this couple have been together for more then 3 years and have lived together before the initial break up because he told her he didnt have feelings for her anymore. what does his actions seem to say about this seeing as he cant say what he actually mean by telling her he had no feeling or emotion about this at all? just a curious question about the term. thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
twinkles Posted December 3, 2011 Share Posted December 3, 2011 I'm afraid to say that in this case his words would speak louder than his actions. His actions were all about getting sex...simple as that. It's pretty obvious that your friend still has feelings for the guy or she wouldn't of asked him if he had any feelings. Sort of like asking him where do we stand. Tell her to withhold sex from this guy. Having sex with him will not bring him back it will just make her a booty call. Ask her to search her soul and ask herself if this is all she thinks she deserves. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AlexisMacabre Posted December 3, 2011 Author Share Posted December 3, 2011 I'm afraid to say that in this case his words would speak louder than his actions. His actions were all about getting sex...simple as that. It's pretty obvious that your friend still has feelings for the guy or she wouldn't of asked him if he had any feelings. Sort of like asking him where do we stand. Tell her to withhold sex from this guy. Having sex with him will not bring him back it will just make her a booty call. Ask her to search her soul and ask herself if this is all she thinks she deserves. i agree with this, i just need some more opinions so i can throw them out there. Link to post Share on other sites
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