Dreaming

[TheUnthoughtKnown]

What do dreams mean? Anything at all? I had a dream about my ex last night that I've spent the better part of today trying to decipher. My dream was this:

 

I was on a night out and ran into my ex's father, who sat and had a drink with me for a while and told me my ex was pregnant. We kept drinking and I went back to his (where my ex DOESN'T stay). I woke up in a bed, and my ex walked into the room, shocked that I was there, she started shouting at me and told me to get the hell out, then left the room. For some reason, I don't leave. So then her mother comes in and starts yelling, prompting me to start yelling at her.

Then for some reason I'm looking at a picture of my ex, but she looks really ugly in this picture. She's got some weird 80s bushy perm-do going on and her eyes are weird, but its still her. Then this guy (who, in my dream, I know to be the father of my ex's unborn kid) gets up an starts staring at me while my ex's dad is talking away to him.

 

That's pretty much the gist of it. I don't really get it but I woke up with her on my mind and the kind of feeling I get when I see her on the street (on the very rare occasions that I have). I haven't spoken to her in nearly 2 years. When we broke up she tried to initiate contact but I told her to f*ck off, and she didn't get back in contact since. Something I still feel guilty about.

 

Anyways, I was pretty damn sure I was over it. I'm seeing someone else now, and I've well and truly moved on. A lot has happened in two years and my life with her is so displaced from my life now, there's very little similarities. Which is making me wonder where the hell this came from!

 

Any ideas?

[davesterr]

in dreams ur brain can bring out the most hidden feelings u have locked up somewhere inside.

i think this dream may mean exactly as it is.

maybe u used to think of ever having kids with this woman.

and that fantasy obviously didn't come out when you broke up.

now years later witout hearing from her , u dream about this scenario.

the yelling is maybe due to not having a closure.

still battles unfinished yet just supressed within the unconscious mind since u moved on.

 

i guess in the end we are all wondering how our ex's are like and what they are doing.

i think since you moved on the picture of her looked ugly.

ur no longer attracted to her like u used to.

maybe u didnt leave the room because u wanted an explanation.

who knows.

 

 

dreams are sometimes used to go through these feelings and make u feel better even when ur asleep.

surely it means you still somehow deep inside perhaps wonder about ur ex.

regret of how things went or wished it ended better.

and the baby and the yelling meaning its definitely over.

whether u were there to get her back or simply to hear about something.

i dont think u wanted her back in ur dream tho cuz she looked ugly.

 

 

either way , dreams can be weird and scary.

i have them alot about my ex and it usually always represent the present and brings out my fears.

like seeing her with someone else.

since i accepted the break up and understood it was definitely over ,

none of my dreams with my ex were we together.

we were always seperate with me being hurt.

dreams just show some weird truth or feeling u got inside.

whether hidden or not.

 

in the end a dream is just a dream.

i dont think urs mean that u still want her , maybe u just didnt get a good closure.

but ur seeing someone else now , and i think ur doing good.

so i wouldn't pay toomuch to it.

if u do have some questions remaining.

well just leave them , because u know 2 years is really a too long time to go back and ask why.

i mean if u moved on , then thats all that matters.

leave the dream for what it is , a dream.

and just keep living ur life man.

ps: what do u think it ment and how did u feel when u were in the room?

Edited December 6, 2011 by davesterr