YouNeverKnow86 Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Has anyone deleted an ex after a breakup but later on in life re-added them once the dust has settled? Could you really not care about seeing their Facebook page once you are over them (no longer in love)? I feel like this becomes common, for people to re-add their ex's a year or two post breakup. Link to post Share on other sites
M2155 Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Yes people have and yes you can not be bothered. When you were with your ex you probably were not too affected to see a picture or update of your ex before that. I'm FB friends with almost all of my exes but it's nothing deep and most of them have their own families now. It's actually nice to see things turned out well for them. Link to post Share on other sites
lilyblue Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 Yes, one of my ex's deleted me after we initially broke up years ago (I was the dumper), but he readded me several months later. We're friends in real life again too and both of us are content that way. Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted December 6, 2011 Share Posted December 6, 2011 yup. however, it concerns me that you're asking, because it sounds like you're wanting to read into something, or being hopeful of it meaning something. then again, you could be worrying that a current of YOURS is speaking to an ex and wondering if you should be concerned... i'm friends with most of my exes on fb, and it can certainly make new relationships a little uncomfy knowing your exes are on there, but if there's truly nothing there, it doesn't matter. you shouldn't add your ex though if you want anything romantic to do with them, just leave that alone. but these people are influential in our lives, and damn right i like to maintain friendships with people that i've been that close to. Link to post Share on other sites
Author YouNeverKnow86 Posted December 6, 2011 Author Share Posted December 6, 2011 yup. however, it concerns me that you're asking, because it sounds like you're wanting to read into something, or being hopeful of it meaning something. then again, you could be worrying that a current of YOURS is speaking to an ex and wondering if you should be concerned... i'm friends with most of my exes on fb, and it can certainly make new relationships a little uncomfy knowing your exes are on there, but if there's truly nothing there, it doesn't matter. you shouldn't add your ex though if you want anything romantic to do with them, just leave that alone. but these people are influential in our lives, and damn right i like to maintain friendships with people that i've been that close to. Yeah just was interested in knowing because my ex girlfriend re-added her ex boyfriend about 1 and half months post our breakup (they didn't talk for 2 years and re-connected around the same time of our breakup). He just yesterday "liked" one of her photos. Link to post Share on other sites
flitzanu Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 i wouldn't worry so much about anyone clicking "like". Link to post Share on other sites
flow15 Posted December 7, 2011 Share Posted December 7, 2011 I'm not friends with any of my ex's on facebook, and have no care in adding them.. They're not a part of my life now! One or two of them did try adding me after some time had passed, but I had no interest in being friends with them or trying to find out about their life, so I rejected their friend request. My most recent ex who brought me to this site and who I am heart broken over, I don't even want to be friends with on facebook cos it would just be too hard to see what is going on in his life.. I dont really believe in maintaining friendships with exs- I think its just plain weird! Link to post Share on other sites
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