Is the message clear and that im just not seeing it??

[foolishlover]

So its been 2 weeks since the break up. I think it hurts me cause like everyone else here, I am scared that my ex will forget me. I love him and always will. I am still in love with him hence the difficulty of moving on. Its hard to eliminate someone from your life thats been with you for 2 years.

 

My question is this. Do you think the fact that i am in love with my ex is clear? I dont want him to have left thinking i dont care for him anymore.

Disclaimer: I am not doing this in hope of him coming back, i just want the closure and peace knowing that I left having my feelings known.

 

The last messages were along these lines:

 

Him: I dont think i will love anyone the way i loved you. (I just noticed he used loved...meaning that he isnt in love anymore? or am i overanalysing) You should go out there and have fun now. Im sorry this didnt work out how you wanted it to.

 

Me: I love you and i always will. Let it be 1 year or 10 years down the track, like i said on day one, i will always love you. I wish you all the best for your future and that you find the happiness that i couldnt give you.

 

 

 

Im probably blinded but it is pretty damn clear that i am in love with him and that he doesnt love me anymore?

 

I think i just need some dignity to stop pining over someone who blatantly does not want to be with me anymore.

 

Your comments are appreciated. I need some advice =(

[solobeary]

Crystal clear! Your message could not have been clearer. He knows that you love him. I know this is one of the worst feelings, but you have to let him go now. Be glad that you've made yourself clear with that loving last text, and now it's time to go no contact, for your own well-being sanity.

[lymtal1]

foolish,

 

agree with solo. you have absolutely nothing else you need to say. and the reality is, and as much as this might hurt, what you say at this point does not matter. he does not view any more of the i love yous, i miss you, we had a great thing, there will be no one else that I will care as much for and on and on as anything more than words. these are all for you getting your emotions out.

 

you say you want him to remember you. trust me he will. so now that you realize that, it is time to refocus yourself to yourself. this is not about him any longer. this is what he wanted. your dignity is within you. you have all the ability to use it, you just have to realize it. he told you he did not love you, in so many words. he told you to go out and have fun now. he tells you that he is sorry that it didn't work out the way YOU wanted it to. these words sould give you all you need to move on. will your feelings still be there for him for some time? of course. but you have to realize this is now about you. time to heal, time to take control of your emotions and especially time to go no contact with him.

 

good luck moving forward, you have to. one day at a time.

[foolishlover]

it is excruciatingly painful when you are still in love with that person. Especially when they tell you to go out there and 'have fun.'

 

I have been doing NC for 2 weeks and there are times of weakness...but i know better than to contact someone who so blatantly tells you that they dont love you anymore.

 

Sometimes i think im doing ok! But then i just break out in tears. Its just so hard to move on when you love someone cause you know you dont want to. Its like i have to force myself to not love someone when i am still in love with him.

 

But i know it is a 2 way street and I will just try and let time dilute the emotions i have for him. But i will still care and love him no matter what.