Jake1497 Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 Hi so i like this girl and i have no clue if she likes me back. Help please. Reasons why she might: . she laughs at nearly everything i say . she smiles at me a lot . her sister told my friend she talks about me a lot . my friends notice a spark . we play footsie (rub and tickle each others foots) . she says i always put her in a good mood . she's always tickling and poking me. . we useally leave 2-3 hearts on our various facebook posts and about 4 kisses . we text a lot. . she's made her own little name up for me: Jacob lol no one else does that for me aha. . in P.E my Volleyball team was playing hers and when she noticed i was on the team she came running over to me screaming Jacob. Reasons why she might not: . she has a lot of other male friends . she hugs them more than me (although she has told me there just her friends) So yeah please help me say if you think she likes me and tell me what i should do. Thank you BTW were both 14 if that helps. Cheers! Posted this on another board but i just want some more answers. Link to post Share on other sites
WhiteChocolate Posted December 10, 2011 Share Posted December 10, 2011 Ask her to be your girlfriend already! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 10, 2011 Author Share Posted December 10, 2011 Haha thanks for your reply, im trying to find the courage to. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Haha thanks for your reply, im trying to find the courage to. Jacob! What happened to asking her out?! Link to post Share on other sites
UpDownAllAround Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 No idea about this guy, but sometimes it takes me six months to get the courage to ask a girl out. I am such a wuss. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 The longer you wait, the more she will think of you just as a friend. And once she made up her mind, there is no going back. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 The longer you wait, the more she will think of you just as a friend. And once she made up her mind, there is no going back. Agreed. The iron's hot, OP. Strike! Strike! Strike! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 11, 2011 Author Share Posted December 11, 2011 Jacob! What happened to asking her out?! Hello again lol. Im thinking im going to but i just wanna get more peoples opnions. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 11, 2011 Author Share Posted December 11, 2011 No idea about this guy, but sometimes it takes me six months to get the courage to ask a girl out. I am such a wuss. Im a wuss but im beginning to feel more confident. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 11, 2011 Author Share Posted December 11, 2011 The longer you wait, the more she will think of you just as a friend. And once she made up her mind, there is no going back. I know. thats what i keep thinking.. Link to post Share on other sites
UpDownAllAround Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Im a wuss but im beginning to feel more confident. Wish I could say that. Good luck sir...let us know how it goes! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 11, 2011 Author Share Posted December 11, 2011 Wish I could say that. Good luck sir...let us know how it goes! You'll get better trust me! And thank you again, i will. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 I know. thats what i keep thinking.. So what are you waiting for? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 12, 2011 Author Share Posted December 12, 2011 So what are you waiting for? Well i want to do it in person and im from England and whilst we've been having this conversation it's been a weekend so i've not seen her in person but i will today (its monday morning now lol. Im hopefully possiably gonna ask her this week! Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted December 13, 2011 Share Posted December 13, 2011 Well i want to do it in person and im from England and whilst we've been having this conversation it's been a weekend so i've not seen her in person but i will today (its monday morning now lol. Im hopefully possiably gonna ask her this week! Can't wait! You promised to update us so don't forget! Link to post Share on other sites
UpDownAllAround Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Sooooooooo...??????? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 Can't wait! You promised to update us so don't forget! I've not forgot. I might ask her Thursday. It's Wednesday where i am now. I'll keep you all updated don't worry Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 Sooooooooo...??????? Im asking her Thursday, today is Wednesday. I'll keep you updated. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 UPDATE: I've not asked her out or anything but theres been some developments. We were putting laptops back at skl and she came behind me and we starting pushing into each (in a playful way). I sent her a text message that said "Goodnight beautiful xxxx" she replied by saying "Awr thank you Jacob;) goodnight xxxx". She still calls me Jacob when my names Jake lol. Link to post Share on other sites
UpDownAllAround Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 UPDATE: I've not asked her out or anything but theres been some developments. We were putting laptops back at skl and she came behind me and we starting pushing into each (in a playful way). I sent her a text message that said "Goodnight beautiful xxxx" she replied by saying "Awr thank you Jacob;) goodnight xxxx". She still calls me Jacob when my names Jake lol. She probably loves watching Twilight. You got the Jacob thing goin' for ya. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 She probably loves watching Twilight. You got the Jacob thing goin' for ya. Aha lol good one. She actually dislikes Twlight lol. Which is a good thing. She hates Justin Bieber too! Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 UPDATE: I've not asked her out or anything but theres been some developments. We were putting laptops back at skl and she came behind me and we starting pushing into each (in a playful way). I sent her a text message that said "Goodnight beautiful xxxx" she replied by saying "Awr thank you Jacob;) goodnight xxxx". She still calls me Jacob when my names Jake lol. You know, J, the last guy I started pushing up against, I married. This is looking fabulously good! Very, very encouraging! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 15, 2011 Author Share Posted December 15, 2011 You know, J, the last guy I started pushing up against, I married. This is looking fabulously good! Very, very encouraging! Aw congrats. Yay lol i hope it is a good sign. Link to post Share on other sites
NoMagicBullet Posted December 18, 2011 Share Posted December 18, 2011 Jake, ask her out already. (Since you haven't posted another update, I assume you still haven't.) Take it from a woman: those are all major signs that she really likes you -- footsies, hearts? Really, dude, what are you waiting for, a neon sign that spells it out? The neon sign ain't gonna happen, BTW. If you don't muster up the courage to ask her out soon, she'll assume you're not interested in being anything more than friends, and she'll move on. In person or not, it doesn't matter -- just ask her out NOW! There is the remote, and I mean remote, possibility that she's a mega-flirt playing games for attention, but you won't know unless you make a move. And the sooner you find out, the better, because at the very least you'll drive yourself nuts building up fantasies in your head about what could be. Better to have a life of "oh wells" than "what ifs". Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jake1497 Posted December 18, 2011 Author Share Posted December 18, 2011 Jake, ask her out already. (Since you haven't posted another update, I assume you still haven't.) Take it from a woman: those are all major signs that she really likes you -- footsies, hearts? Really, dude, what are you waiting for, a neon sign that spells it out? The neon sign ain't gonna happen, BTW. If you don't muster up the courage to ask her out soon, she'll assume you're not interested in being anything more than friends, and she'll move on. In person or not, it doesn't matter -- just ask her out NOW! There is the remote, and I mean remote, possibility that she's a mega-flirt playing games for attention, but you won't know unless you make a move. And the sooner you find out, the better, because at the very least you'll drive yourself nuts building up fantasies in your head about what could be. Better to have a life of "oh wells" than "what ifs". Hi, i really agree with you comment. I was going to tell her last Thursday but i decided not too. Some days i feel like i could tell her and others i feel like i can't. We have to days of school left until we break up for Christmas. Now im hellbent on telling her somehow or someway in one of those two days. Thank you for your help. Link to post Share on other sites
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