ILuvMySoldier214 Posted May 29, 2004 Share Posted May 29, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=red][/color] Ok this was my last option to turn to for help. I am so confused right now. My fiancee is in the army. Things have always been really good between us. Once before though he called me by his ex girlfriends name. I was soo mad, but then he said all the stuff guys say to make everything better and I forgave him. Well last night he went out with some of the other soldiers and I know they need to have fun to, but by the way that I know him I could tell he had been drinking. His attitude was totally different and he was blaming me for being mad at him, when I wasnt and just going off over anything and I hadnt even said a word. He accused me of thinking that he was cheating on me when the thought never even crossed my mind, but now he has me thinking is he or was he just drunk? But really made me mad was the ex g/f thing. I dont go for that ever. Its just something you dont do. I just need help on what he is thinking, or what to do. I want to be supportive and I know what he does has to be tough, but I dont know what to think about him doing all of that. Is he cheating? Or am I just being too paranoid. Link to post Share on other sites
Haylo22 Posted May 29, 2004 Share Posted May 29, 2004 [color=blue][/color]well theres no way of really telling if he is cheating. Sometimes you have to find out your self or just take his word. If he was i think there would be more evidence of it. You as a girlfriend arent doing anything wrong, but if you feel the urge to leave him, dont do it until you talk to him. Thats what a realtionship consist of. Talking to work out each others problems to make it last. It really shows that you love him so dont worry about it until it really gets serious. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted May 29, 2004 Share Posted May 29, 2004 Originally posted by ILuvMySoldier214 Once before though he called me by his ex girlfriends name. I was soo mad, but then he said all the stuff guys say to make everything better and I forgave him. This is no big deal. In my opinion, I don't think you had a right to be "soo mad" about it. It's an honest mistake. From what you posted, I don't think he's being unfaithful. But only you can assess your relationship. Whether he's cheating, or you just THINK he's cheating--the effects are the same. Link to post Share on other sites
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