RonChalant Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Remember this when your feeling down. ****t happens, your gonna be sad for a sec, but at the end of the day only you choose to continue to be sad. Don't pine over people who dont want to be with you it will only **** you up more. Force yourself to see the brighter side of things. Chances are you sensed that the relationship was coming to an end, the hardest part is having your comfort zone taken from you. I just got booted from a 7 year relationship a weeknand a half ago, the first week was HORRIBLE but suddenly I realize I am a stronger person on my own. If you haven't seen the movie Hancock, watch it. It is the perfect metaphor for what i have just said. Listen to the song let the sunshine by Aquarius. It helped my for some reason. The beginning is...kinda strange but halfway through, the part that makes you happy kicks in and you can't help but be optimistic listening to it. Just saying. Good luck folks Link to post Share on other sites
LostJustLost Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Wow I don't know how you did it, a week and a half and you're alright.. that's amazing. I wish I knew then what I'm beginning to realize now. Mine was 5 years and Im still stammering at times to get a grip. Havent heard that song in eons but if it'll help, off to youtube I go. Good luck to you also, continued strength and healing also. ~L Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Pain is inevitable, suffering is a choice I completely agree. but it's a heck of a hard choice to make, and it's not easy for many to see the logic, when their eyes are filled with tears. Link to post Share on other sites
karmaqueen Posted December 11, 2011 Share Posted December 11, 2011 Thanks for that! I'm having a particularly difficult day and that helped:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Author RonChalant Posted December 11, 2011 Author Share Posted December 11, 2011 Believe me I'm far from completely over it, but I'm choosing to no let it consume me. I still think about her on a daily basis and actually just made the mistake of going to her Facebook page. Didnt see anything bad but her face made my my stomach drop and put me in a semi bad mood for about 15min, but I'm back to normal, well maybe 85% there...I'll be glad when the 3 month mark hits. Something tells me that will be a good point in time as far as getting over her as best I can. Soooooo glad I'm over the crying stage though, that was way to draining for me Link to post Share on other sites
SelfCentered Posted December 12, 2011 Share Posted December 12, 2011 "Pain is fear leaving your body" True for me. Feared losing her, couldn't concentrate on my life. Lost her, got depressed, hurt(s) all the time, but not fearing anymore and moving on. Link to post Share on other sites
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