Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 That was a contact to get her to stop contacting me lol But she was just responding to your repeated contacts to her.. thru FB and email as well as texts.. You created a fake FB account and contacted her just the other day.. dude.... Stop contacting her Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 Yea your right about that lol. She never signed on again and part of me is hoping that she will but as of now I dont think she is and thats going to nag me a little. She's making it sound like I'm never going to talk to her again lol. But I guess thats good for me to make her go into panic mode. I just hoping she doesn't rush over to the other guy ya know. I know she has a long busy day with school and work tomorrow so I should be fine with her not spending time with another person the entire day. It is easier for me not to text her now compared to when I first started this thread. I guess I am healing and looks like she got a taste of reality that she cuased. And she DID sign back onto aim...woo weeee got her head turning and fighignt to old mine together Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Yea your right about that lol. She never signed on again and part of me is hoping that she will but as of now I dont think she is and thats going to nag me a little. She's making it sound like I'm never going to talk to her again lol. But I guess thats good for me to make her go into panic mode. I just hoping she doesn't rush over to the other guy ya know. I know she has a long busy day with school and work tomorrow so I should be fine with her not spending time with another person the entire day. It is easier for me not to text her now compared to when I first started this thread. I guess I am healing and looks like she got a taste of reality that she cuased. dont sit there and wait for her to contact you. if she does she does. dont even log into aim if you dont have to. this is your chance to improve yourself, become more secure about yourself, cause i can tell you right now that youre to miserable to get her back. accept it and move on. its up to her to say that she wants you back if thats the case. the more youre waiting, the more pain you will feel, and you will not be able to show her that youre actually accepting the fact that she's not there. so what if she's seeing another guy? when you started this tread you told me she was. and by the way, this could actually be an advantage for you. you two share a history together, if she isnt completely over you it will be hard for her to start something new, a new clingy guy that is pusing her into a new relationship. if she's over you, well then she is and theres nothing you can do about it, but at least youve moved on if only a little. expect the worst but hope for the best. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 But she was just responding to your repeated contacts to her.. thru FB and email as well as texts.. You created a fake FB account and contacted her just the other day.. dude.... Stop contacting her Art, you a little behind on the story lol. Read a few posts back and you'll see whats going on. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Art, you a little behind on the story lol. Read a few posts back and you'll see whats going on. I don't have to.. stop contacting her... You even contacted her to tell her to not contact you NC= NO CONTACT GO SILENT at this point.. NC Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 I don't have to.. stop contacting her... You even contacted her to tell her to not contact you NC= NO CONTACT GO SILENT at this point.. NC haha it does sound funny when you say it. but she contacted him anyway, it was the best way if he wants her back;) Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 I don't have to.. stop contacting her... You even contacted her to tell her to not contact you NC= NO CONTACT GO SILENT at this point.. NC If you do read a few post back...it'll help to tell you why I had to. She wouldn't stop messaging me if I didn't and I woulda kept messaging her if I did. This started nc so i had to tell her. And its working beter then expected. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 haha it does sound funny when you say it. but she contacted him anyway, it was the best way if he wants her back;) Well said lol and so far it is showing positive results. Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Well said lol and so far it is showing positive results. anything new? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 anything new? The last thing that was said from her. And sorry if I said this already Her: Her: so have a good life Her: I mean, I didn't want to end this being mad. But idk. No need to be rude. Then she signed off for the night Oh man I was biting my tongue because I wanted to say stuff. :/ Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 The last thing that was said from her. And sorry if I said this already Her: Her: so have a good life Her: I mean, I didn't want to end this being mad. But idk. No need to be rude. Then she signed off for the night Oh man I was biting my tongue because I wanted to say stuff. :/ do not fall for it. its just her looking for closure. promise me one thing, if you get back together, update. people seems to stop typing whenever they get back together with their ex. its helpful for people in here you know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 (edited) do not fall for it. its just her looking for closure. promise me one thing, if you get back together, update. people seems to stop typing whenever they get back together with their ex. its helpful for people in here you know. Dont worry brother, I will deffinately be on here with updates if we do get back together. It'll be my way of helping everyong but at the moment I cant help anyone if I need help myself. I'm most likely not going to have any updates for the next 12hrs since we will both be buisy. I have finals to study for and she has class and work then class all day. But I will be back on here I can assure you that. Unless she sends me a text throughout the day. Edited December 14, 2011 by SkyEmtRN Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Dont worry brother, I will deffinately be on here with updates if we do get back together. It'll be my way of helping everyong but at the moment I cant help anyone if I need help myself. I'm most likely not going to have any updates for the next 12hrs since we will both be buisy. I have finals to study for and she has class and work then class all day. But I will be back on here I can assure you that. Unless she sends me a text throughout the day. yeah just make sure youre updating this will be a learning experience for you, every relationship is. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 You really need to stop CONTACTING HER... Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 You really need to stop CONTACTING HER... haha hopefully he wont do that anymore Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 haha hopefully he wont do that anymore Lol dont worry I'm not. SHE contacts me if anything lol. Guess its starting to hit her that she no longer has my goodmorning and goodnights or someone to always talk to when ever she has a problem. Becuase you know, I was ALWAYS there for her when she needed me even when I was buisy with school. She says she angry at me and I treated her bad...yet why still contact me then hmmm??? If I was so bad why still want me in your life?? I'm sure those are just excuses. (Relax this was all said while back and not recently) I really hope reality will sink in her and realize that even though I didn't spend much time with her, I was still a good person to be in her life...just had a lot of extra personal stuff to deal with that it made it some what difficult to spend time with her. She was also clingy and always always wanted to spend time with me...like everday 24/7. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Good for you.. But..... Remember that if she contacts you and you reply back then you are still contacting her.. the difference would be that she initiated it... NC= No contact If she contacts her then just block and delete her... Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 its kinda obvious she's not taking this well , just keep doing what youre doing. if you ever feel like contacting her. log in here and type it instead Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 Good for you.. But..... Remember that if she contacts you and you reply back then you are still contacting her.. the difference would be that she initiated it... NC= No contact If she contacts her then just block and delete her... Oh yes I understand. But right now...I'M in control...not her! And i want to keep that control Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 its kinda obvious she's not taking this well , just keep doing what youre doing. if you ever feel like contacting her. log in here and type it instead Will do. I'm most likely going to create another thread of things I would say to her when she messages me. I think it will help to get it off my chest and will prevent me from sending it to her ya know. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Will do. I'm most likely going to create another thread of things I would say to her when she messages me. I think it will help to get it off my chest and will prevent me from sending it to her ya know. You say NOTHING...Write it out on LS.. sure.. but don't send anything to her... Let her heal.. and you need to heal too.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 You say NOTHING...Write it out on LS.. sure.. but don't send anything to her... Let her heal.. and you need to heal too.. LOL thats the whole point. I dont want to send her anything, I'm going to write it out on LS but WON'T I reapeat WON'T send it. Becuase if I do, I will lose my control and start of square 1....again Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 Now you have it... serenity is just around the corner... Link to post Share on other sites
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 14, 2011 Author Share Posted December 14, 2011 Question (I already know what Artic going to say lol) IF she does message me tonight more than once... Should I say: "I'm not mad or trying to be rude, but this is for the best, please talk to me only if you want to rekindle the relationship" ??? Just so she can stop messaging me or is it better to just leave it as is and continue the NC? as Artic will scream out to me when he reads this Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 14, 2011 Share Posted December 14, 2011 I'll just leave it as .... Link to post Share on other sites
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