ziggue Posted May 30, 2004 Share Posted May 30, 2004 Would you tell your partner/boyfriend about this website? Loveshack? Or keep it to yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted May 30, 2004 Share Posted May 30, 2004 I told my S/O about it Usually he will agree with my posts, but once in awhile he will have a different perception on a situation and I get a whole different look. And sometimes the posts will bring up an idea or issue we had never thought to thunk. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ziggue Posted May 31, 2004 Author Share Posted May 31, 2004 My boyfriend knows about this website too. It's the same deal with him with posts I post or advice I give whenever he looks it up on the Net alone or I am there with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted May 31, 2004 Share Posted May 31, 2004 My fiance knows about it, has joined (Bunnyboy), and thinks it's great that it's helped me in my battle to overcome my OCD and other issues. Sometimes he laughs at me for spending so much time chatting, but it's all in good fun. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ziggue Posted May 31, 2004 Author Share Posted May 31, 2004 My boyfriend has joined as Giant. Got him to join. He couldn't think of a nickname so I gave him that one because he is over 6 foot. Lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted May 31, 2004 Share Posted May 31, 2004 Well, Giant could refer to a number of things really lol! Link to post Share on other sites
Author ziggue Posted May 31, 2004 Author Share Posted May 31, 2004 Ooh. My boyfriend will like you post. Lol. . . His gonna get embarresed. . . Lol. . Nah he'll think good one! Link to post Share on other sites
ladyangel Posted May 31, 2004 Share Posted May 31, 2004 My husband knows about the site, in general terms, but not the name of it. I'd rather keep it my own personal place to come. I don't really have any secrets from him, and I often tell him about subjects or conversations from here, and that I get a lot out of coming here. He seems to enjoy hearing about some of the things that go on here. Link to post Share on other sites
sportsloving Posted May 31, 2004 Share Posted May 31, 2004 Originally posted by ziggue My boyfriend has joined as Giant. Got him to join. He couldn't think of a nickname so I gave him that one because he is over 6 foot. Lol. My S/O prefers to "slink around" the site and has never registered. He did say I could register him if I wanted, but what fun is that? He is also over six foot tall, lol ... but the one time I did create a screen name for him it was something about Oaf . (And such a cute oaf he is). Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted May 31, 2004 Share Posted May 31, 2004 On a serious note, my fiance appreciates the site, because it has actually helped US sort through a few issues, to do with my obsessing etc, and has given him some support and insights too. He doesn't have time to come online much now...but he sometimes checks in to see what i have written...and he appreciated all the congrats. when I posted about our engagement. Link to post Share on other sites
average guy Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I've told my wife, but I just wish it wasn't called "Love Shack"! Sometimes friends or family walk by my computer and see the big "Love Shack" logo and give me a look like "I didn't know you were into online sex chat". There must be a better name for this site, but I have no idea what it is - maybe "ICA - Interpersonal Communication Advice" (doesn't sound as exciting as "Love shack" though, does it? Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Nope, I don't intend to!!!! To me LS is like a diary, I can say exactly what I feel, without the fear of being misunderstood or misinterpreted! LS is like a very good friend: you always share more with him than with the bf, he always knows more about you than the bf!!! I hate sharing ! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyrannaste Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Would you tell your partner/boyfriend about this website? Loveshack? No way. That is because of a few posts I wrote. He might not like them, and *expecially* I do not want him to think I showed him the site in hope he'd read them. I just told him I read/post 'in a forum about relationships'. If he asked me to show him the site I would, but since he did not ask anything, the better. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugar_Cube Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I usually tell my H about everything. However, not about me posting on here. For the simple fact I'm trying to get advice and support from others as what to do with the situation we are in. If hes not gonna tell me things (alot) of things he does, then its not bad for me to not tell him of this one site I'm in seeking advice. Link to post Share on other sites
TX_28 Posted June 2, 2004 Share Posted June 2, 2004 I probably wouldn't. Link to post Share on other sites
2SidestoStories Posted June 3, 2004 Share Posted June 3, 2004 Interestingly enough, it was actually my exhb who found this site about a year ago. He was coming here to seek advice to "stop our divorce." I wound up seeing that he was online here, and decided to see what he had written. As a direct result, I decided to post my side of the story (yep, hence the name dealy-mabopper.) He did not continue to post after his initial writing, but apparently did come back to check up on what I had been posting. And for a good long while, I posted. A LOT!!! I think he had hoped to keep it a secret at first, though. He told me he was seeking justification for his choices, which on its most basic level I can understand since that was really what I did as well. Ah, the complications. <sigh> Life is weird. Link to post Share on other sites
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