confusedgirl Posted May 30, 2004 Share Posted May 30, 2004 ~~the joys of being in love...and the joys of having arguments:(~~ me & me loved one have been together almost a year now and i dont think i could ever be happier he makes me feel alive when im feeling down,he just pushes all the right buttons and i never want to lose him but we have this major problem that really frustrates me and hurts at the same time. we get moments where he will be telling me something and ill seem to dissagree yet not say so but act so like pull a face or something,but i deny it and this annoys him as he can clearly see im upset.but there are times when im listenin to him talking and he will think somethings wrong with my response and start accusing me of being funny with him,when in fact it was something stupid like id get an itch and pull face or...you know absolutely anything,you name it.this frustrates me,he says it frustrates him as he always thinks i go in these funny moods,i used to mind,but now i have quit acting so ignorant that he now see's an argument in the slightest stupidest things and its upsetting me.The other night was no exception,we wer chattin happily and then for a split second i forgot wat a hard week he has had so i get needy for comfort and affection but he just starts snapping sayin hes had a hard week and i was accusing him of bein bored in my company,when i didnt mean it like that at all i meant it in a way that what we could have been doing at the time was a bit boring so we could have changed it.but then we had this argument where i start looking cross and folding my arms sayin im sick of this happening,we made up in the end and he apologised,but i cant see why something so little what i said hours earlier could bug him for so long,its not like we ever have anythin massive to argue about,we never do...anymore cos i dont act immaturely like i once did i learnt from my mistakes but why should he make out im so frustrating liek this when im just a sensative loving girlfriend who says things sometimes and seem oblivious to why its such a bad thing.bare in mind he has pulled me up about something iv said earlier before,and it was also ridiculous,its confusing me so much id hate to see what his reaction is to me cheating on him or calling him all names under the sun.this shouldnt be a problem but it is to me,i want to know if anyone can see where im going wrong or is it him? cos it seems hes pin picking at slight things....but why? thanx for ur help xx Link to post Share on other sites
dudesomewhere Posted May 30, 2004 Share Posted May 30, 2004 hmmm what you just told...seems like you think things, react "silently" and when he calls you on those reactions you play them off. Those reactions can't be all itches can they? I knew a girl and we'd be talking OR not but whenever I'd see some reaction on her face and asked her what it was...it was always nothing. Maybe he's the type that likes communication...and it seems like it. I don't know...just reminds me of this person...comes off as being deceitful, regardless of the feeling behind the reaction. If there's a reaction and it's always nothing...an alarm goes off, it's only natural. Imagine you were talking to him and he's listening and you see him roll his eyes or make a face like he's nauseous, you ask him about it and he says, eh, it's nothing. eh Link to post Share on other sites
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