cerridwen Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Probably a really stupid thing to do but I sent D an email. I said that I understood why she did what she did because I put a lot of pressure on her and most likely made her feel uncomfortable. That she was always patient and understanding with me, and that I basically made her feel that she had no other choice. I closed with wishing that if we see each other on campus, I can say hi to her instead of pretending to ignore each other. I at least hope she reads it. A reply would be highly surprising. It kills me how much I'm still stuck on her. It's been two months since I last saw her and I'm usually completely over most girls by now. But for some reason the pain hasn't lessened. I don't know what's going on. All right. The fellas may give you a rash of sh^t about it but here's my take. It needed to be done. I think the attachment is intermix with guilt. To clear the former, you clear the latter. This email was a good idea. Now run for cover. Dust should be along shortly. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 ROFL! No way that's going to happen It was all purely hypothetical. Though I'm not saying it's impossible for it to happen with a woman. -------------- Probably a really stupid thing to do but I sent D an email. I said that I understood why she did what she did because I put a lot of pressure on her and most likely made her feel uncomfortable. That she was always patient and understanding with me, and that I basically made her feel that she had no other choice. I closed with wishing that if we see each other on campus, I can say hi to her instead of pretending to ignore each other. I at least hope she reads it. A reply would be highly surprising. It kills me how much I'm still stuck on her. It's been two months since I last saw her and I'm usually completely over most girls by now. But for some reason the pain hasn't lessened. I don't know what's going on. Oh somedude why did you do this. Girls don't want to hear some apology letter about them being always understanding and patient. Also you just made things more awkward, why not just say hi instead of ignoring her and see what happens instead of doing this. All right. The fellas may give you a rash of sh^t about it but here's my take. It needed to be done. I think the attachment is intermix with guilt. To clear the former, you clear the latter. This email was a good idea. Now run for cover. Dust should be along shortly. You're a girl of course you wouldn't see the harm. Could you imagine a letter talking about how patien and understanding you'd been from a guy you'd just been friends with... Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf18 Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Probably a really stupid thing to do but I sent D an email. I said that I understood why she did what she did because I put a lot of pressure on her and most likely made her feel uncomfortable. That she was always patient and understanding with me, and that I basically made her feel that she had no other choice. I closed with wishing that if we see each other on campus, I can say hi to her instead of pretending to ignore each other. I at least hope she reads it. A reply would be highly surprising. It kills me how much I'm still stuck on her. It's been two months since I last saw her and I'm usually completely over most girls by now. But for some reason the pain hasn't lessened. I don't know what's going on. Big mistake. The best way to get over a girl if you are not very disciplined is to let the bridge behind you burn. Next time you see her on campus, even though you told her you'd say hi, ignore her anyway Trust me, it's much more satisfying than begging for forgiveness or flip flopping. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Big mistake. The best way to get over a girl if you are not very disciplined is to let the bridge behind you burn. Next time you see her on campus, even though you told her you'd say hi, ignore her anyway Trust me, it's much more satisfying than begging for forgiveness or flip flopping. He should start singing to her real loud and dancing on the tables like something out of Top Gun. Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf18 Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 He should start singing to her real loud and dancing on the tables like something out of Top Gun. That, or email her a picture of his member. How's that for an apology. Man the hell up Somedude. This girl wasn't patient with you, she didn't even give you a chance. If anything, you were patient with her. You took the friend zone balony for as long as you did and even after breaking ties, you still care about her and she doesn't care about you. Don't throw away your dignity just so she doesn't feel bad about the pain she inflicted on you with her stupid games. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 You're a girl of course you wouldn't see the harm. Could you imagine a letter talking about how patien and understanding you'd been from a guy you'd just been friends with... Yeah and I'd think more highly of him. I just still wouldn't give it up. SOMEDUDE! I just thought of this: Is this some ploy to try and get back in her drawers?! Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted January 7, 2012 Author Share Posted January 7, 2012 You guys don't know the full story between us. As much as I posted, I left many things out. Trust me, she had been very patient. No, I don't want her forgiveness nor do I have any fantasies of us becoming close again. It was just something I've been thinking about doing for a long time. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 Yeah and I'd think more highly of him. I just still wouldn't give it up. SOMEDUDE! I just thought of this: Is this some ploy to try and get back in her drawers?! He'd have a better chance of getting in her drawers if he picked her up and throws her into a tree. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted January 7, 2012 Author Share Posted January 7, 2012 There is nothing in the world I could possible do to get into her drawers short of using a power drill.... Also, I have no desire to be friends or hang out with her again. That part of my life is over. Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted January 7, 2012 Share Posted January 7, 2012 jobaba and somedude "In your time" - Hunh? You mean like yesterday when I began a conversation with a 20 or 30 something in the grocery store of the good deal of a ham and continued to talk while we shopped. Or like last fall, when a 30 something asked me if I would like to go next door to the donut shop for a donut and coffee Or like last summer, when a very hot looking 20 something asked me if I would like to come by her place some time to see her collection of snakes. Or a year ago when an English checkout girl at the grocery store always had an off color joke to tell me when I got in her line, and repeatedly invited me over to her place, where she would to cook me Bangers Or a year ago when two gals at the bakery, one a 40 year old, invited me to her B-day party, and the other barely 20, a college student, invited me over to her place to teach her about oral Me, I am plus 65, and have finally reached 150 pounds on my 5' 6" frame, with my slight belly and all white beard, if you could color me blue I would look like a smurf Oh by the way, I have been living with a gal who is two inches taller than me, is just a couple of years away from turning 60 and still has an hour glass figure to go with her fantastic legs. She has taken great care of her skin and barely looks age 30. She works retail and with her long legs and great shape she is constantly being hit on by guys of all ages. Seventeen years ago, a few years before I turned 50, I took her away from a good looking 6-footer, who looked like her dream guy, Steven Segal. He was 7 years younger than her or 15 years younger then me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted January 7, 2012 Author Share Posted January 7, 2012 Point being? Not sure if you understand, but I've never had an success with women whatsoever and I'm 30. That's a whole lot of failure and self-hatred going on. That doesn't sound like something you've had to deal with. Link to post Share on other sites
GG2W Posted January 8, 2012 Share Posted January 8, 2012 (edited) What's the point? The man is your size and twice as old as you and still getting attention from ladies half his age. A better question how do you do it? Edited January 8, 2012 by GG2W missing word Link to post Share on other sites
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