musemaj11 Posted December 29, 2011 Share Posted December 29, 2011 (edited) Right, exactly! This is what I was thinking most of the time when I read your posts on women and material wealth. Your views are based on your life experiences, which of course are valid in their own right... but that doesn't exactly mean that most of the women out there will match up with those views, or else they're the "exceptions." It's a good thing to have experience in life and to have learned from it, but it's a different thing altogether when you allow that experience to keep you from being open to other things (or people) that may actually be different from it. It just seems naive to think after a few bad experiences that, "Well, based on my life experiences, point blank: all women are like this, and all men are like that." Because, as said, personal experience is useful... but it’s also limited in a way, because we’re always learning and meeting new people in our lives who make us think about our views on people. And this is very false to me, because the last thing I feel when I love a man is, "Do I benefit?" or "I benefit, thus I love." More like, "I love, thus I benefit", which is more in the way of how being with a person who is right for you tends to rub off and makes you want to be a better person. There are many women out there who are similar to me in that aspect, and I honestly don’t think it’s all that rare, if you’re going after the right women... I already gave different women benefit of the doubt and time and time again I was disappointed. At the moment Im out of college and Im financially better off than years ago. Now I have a lot less problems getting women because I have a decent full-time job and I can afford a newer car, more pricey dates, and living on my own. However, that doesnt mean Im ever going to let go of this huge grudge in my heart that I needed to have money first before I could be considered deserving of love. I have kept my guard up for so long that I dont even remember how it feels to fall in love anymore. Over the years I have been close to many women but I never opened my heart to any of them because I knew that its not who I was that they were genuinely in love with. They were just falling for my perceived status and the money I spend on them and they all would be gone the moment I lost everything, they had more than I did, or they met someone with more material possessions. When I see a woman, I feel numb. I cant feel any deep emotions toward them because I know at the bottom of it they see me first and foremost as a stack of cash. Edited December 29, 2011 by musemaj11 Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 30, 2011 Share Posted December 30, 2011 No one should trust the jibber-jabber of a woman with the word "princess" in her username. That just reeks of entitlement. And you're just trying to give excuses for why you want men to spend money on you just for having a pussy. I would like to discourage the condescending, dismissive use of terms like "jibber-jabber," "screeching," "spitting," "hissing," etc. that some of you guys frequently use against women with whom you are having discussions here on LS. If you are going to engage with someone, why not have some respect. Also, I cannot help myself from noticing that the criticism of "Princess" in a member's user name comes from a poster who has the word "Moron" in their own! Just saying! Link to post Share on other sites
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