Spark1111 Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Spark, plenty of wisdom here. I wonder sometimes about your faith in good things happening. I too have that kind of faith, but I question it a lot. I see people all over the world having faith in just having enough food, and that goes wrong. Expectations can quite easily equal misery if not fulfilled. It's not always a case of you get the right mindset and it will work out. Unless that mindset accounts for a degree of love and possible outcomes that goes towards the cosmic... Anyway, merry Christmas. Peace. You know what FS? excellent wisdome here too! If you do not expect and demand more, you will NEVER get it. While one can NEVER expect or depend more on others. you can always expect or depend more on ONESELF. Your life, your relationships, your goals and dreams and ambitions begin and end with you. If YOU do not hold yourself to a higher standard, absolutely NO ONE ELSE will either. Link to post Share on other sites
daisy love Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Expectations can quite easily equal misery if not fulfilled. It's not always a case of you get the right mindset and it will work out. Unless that mindset accounts for a degree of love and possible outcomes that goes towards the cosmic... Anyway, merry Christmas. Peace.Honey child, disappointments shouldn't stop ppl from tryin! If we all went for the least common denominator cuz it was easy, then we'd all be dating Mr. Gigolo! That would really suck. Link to post Share on other sites
FelicityShot Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Honey child, disappointments shouldn't stop ppl from tryin! If we all went for the least common denominator cuz it was easy, then we'd all be dating Mr. Gigolo! That would really suck. Sometimes I love the more light hearted posters for their wisdom. Link to post Share on other sites
FelicityShot Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 You know what FS? excellent wisdome here too! If you do not expect and demand more, you will NEVER get it. While one can NEVER expect or depend more on others. you can always expect or depend more on ONESELF. Your life, your relationships, your goals and dreams and ambitions begin and end with you. If YOU do not hold yourself to a higher standard, absolutely NO ONE ELSE will either. Well, there's not a thing to disagree with here Spark. Much to my consternation Link to post Share on other sites
Severely Unamused Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Honey child, disappointments shouldn't stop ppl from tryin! If we all went for the least common denominator cuz it was easy, then we'd all be dating Mr. Gigolo! That would really suck. I think that I'm in love with the duck lady. Link to post Share on other sites
alexandria35 Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 This thread is awesome Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 you posted the above, yet you have started calling names to a poster who has been here longer than you. her name is daisy love. it is incredibly rude and childish to call her names and i believe it is also against the terms of service. you scolded pretty much everyone who posted to you and berated them for their negativity, and yet here you go, being negative and judgmental to someone who has got her man. sour grapes maybe? so you went from mm to gigolo to 'numerous' men who want you....and yet you claim you do not need a man. your entire being is wrapped up in a man, in attention from a man, etc. it is abnormal for someone to be so focused on finding a man to flirt with her or tell her he wants her. i do not say that to be mean but to show you that you truly could benefit from some counseling. there has to be a reason why you jump all over the place with wanting attention from a man. it isn't about confidence because your actions/behavior do not seem confident. your actions/behavior seem needy and clingy. you claim that you are being so bombarded from texts from a guy who saw you for half a second and in the same breathe, you admit he has women basically throwing themselves at him and how he is texting you non-stop. i think you were hurt very badly by the mm not choosing you and it is driving you crazy and you want to show him how men want you and you need to feel wanted in order to get over being so hurt by him. being hurt isn't a negative; it is part of life. seems like being hurt makes you cling to anyone who shows a minimal amount of interest and you build it up to where you even commented on how the gigolo must be falling for you because of sending you horny texts and sexting with him. i hope you can find someone to help you through your hurt and help you realize you do not need to have a man sexting you in order to have value and worth. Insightful post hockey! Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 This thread is awesome Yep...best thread of 2011 lmao Link to post Share on other sites
LadyGrey Posted December 28, 2011 Share Posted December 28, 2011 Yep...best thread of 2011 lmao It gets my vote! And who said this part of LS wasn't entertaining and laugh my ass off kind of funny! :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
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