had girlfriend = many girls want me,,, no girlfriend = no girls want me ????? ?????

[quyster]

I dont know how this work, i hope somebody else feel the same way.

 

I'm not bad looking, not poor, not bad personality.

 

When I had a girlfriend, many girls attracted to me. I manytimes had to take these crazy bugs off of me. My ex-girlfriend had to physically fight them off.

 

Now, after 3 years (i'm not old, only 22) I don't have a girlfriend anymore. No one wants me, or I cant' find anyone available. ?????? ?????? Where's my attraction.

 

DOES ANYONE FEEL THE SAME? ANY THEORY FOR THIS??? EXPLAINATION ???

 

OR THINGS ARE JUST WHACK LIKE THAT, SOMETIMES ??? ???? LOL

[pitprincess]

What do you mean have to take bugs off you?

Sometimes you may be looking to hard to find the one that can make you happy

Trying to find someone most times just does nothing more then aggervate your self and bring you hard emotions.

Just be your self and stay kind to others and your light will shine right through to others

Being happy and self motivated helps in attractions to one another.

 

I am sure that when Mrs Right comes along you will make her very happy. Live today for today and start again tomorrow is my moto

Best of Luck to you :)

[quyster]

The crazy bugs thing, is suposed to be funny. That's the line my ex used. lol

 

Thank you princess, for your very woman perspective, point of view about things that I needed to understand.

Very helpful information that would definitely help me for successful relationship in the future.

[pitprincess]

I thought that was what you were meaning but it never hurts to check.. lol

 

Guys sometimes try to hard.. wemon do the same thing.

Let your heart be free to everyone. It does bring attraction to you and around you

Your inner spirit will shine when nothing else will work

Good Luck :)

[bluechocolate]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t39145/

[dudesomewhere]

I'm good looking, awesome personality...but hellaciously poor <--- note I'm a weisenheimer as well ...who takes that seriously? I wouldn't...but I am poor

 

girls want me anyway...why? eh...beats me

 

I'm betting yous(sic) is jus(sic) crazy. no sic...ehehehehehe

 

Seriously, I don't think you are looking...or looking in the right places...or noticing when someone is noticing. Capisce? ANYONE can get anybody if you are looking in the right places...the right places are settings harmonious to your soul. What I mean by that is, if you are a quiet, gentle, mousy person...go to academic places like museums, libraries and bookstores, etc. If you are a neanderthal, hit the bars. If you are a gigolo hit the clubs...and the bars. hehe

 

aggghhhhh, runsaway just in case someone gets mad

[faux]

Women seem to want what they cannot have. If you have a ring on your finger you will be sure to attract someone even if you do not intend to do so. If you have a girlfriend, or you are seen in public on a date with a girl who is very into you, women WILL notice this.

 

I believe they may think something like, "This girl really likes him. He must be really good, therefore I want this guy because I want a nice guy like that for myself!" Additionally, even if you have a wedding band on your finger, some women may think, "He is obviously a keeper, and a provider. He must have money to support a family. I want this guy."

 

If you want to be dishonest... The next time you walk up to a woman and engage in decent conversation, make it a point to mention that you are "seeing someone", but be vague about it. Tell her you enjoyed the conversation, and might not mind talking to her again. I have done this inadvertently many times, and it seems to work like a charm. In other words: I will be taken, and meet someone I see as a new friend. The woman will think that I am interested in her.

 

I don't recommend being dishonest, however. Generally speaking, everything here of course that I wrote being my sole opinion based on personal experience, women seem to want men that they cannot have much of the time. If you have a girlfriend or a fiance/wife, you can be seen as a "keeper" and something they would want to have. And believe me, if you present yourself as unavailable you WILL get some of them trying to change that.

 

If you have a lot of goals for yourself and you seem to be actively pursuing them, this is another way to seem "out of reach" to women. I notice the more I talk about education, hobbies, and exercise, the more people take an interest to me.

[Bobbie]

I read something by Cosmo editor Kate White a few years ago on this very subject: she was waiting to meet her date and wandering around an art gallery and a gorgeous guy hit on her and she said where was he all those years I was single and looking for dates...and came to the conclusion he was attracted to her just then because he saw a woman in love with life and happy with herself, the most attractive qualities, qualities she gained by having a fulfilling life and career.

 

Times in life where there's no lover can be good times.