What is closure....???

[will_woman]

I am going through my divorce right now. Not so clean cut....having some disagreements in settlement...so there are letters going back and froth both lawyers. Going to drag the case longer and that adds onto my agony.

 

My husband fell for a girl and he decided to let go of our 6 years relationship. In fact he knew the girl for less than a month and he is so madly in love with her.

 

Now I am still feeling pain from time to time though it happened seven months ago.

 

Actually, I posted this message to ask what is closure. I have no idea of it. Anyone can share with me?

[CurlyIam]

I'll give you what I think closure is. When one relationship isn't working, but has been a long and significant one, it is difficult to let go.

 

Closure means understanding that it is over. One final talk, one letter, one mail, a thing to do and for the other one to receive and accept so that both of you can finally let understand it is over, accept it and let go.

 

Having a closure is most important, as it helps a lot in continuing your life - the end of a chapter is the beginning of another.

[beautiful]

Closure is when you love yourself enough that you know you won't be second best to anyone in life. When you truly love yourself and at peace with yourself. Knowing it is over and the door closed only to open to a more wonderful life ahaead for you. This man divorced you for another girl that he THINKS he is in love with ......yet he is in LUST! HIS LOSS!

You go on living your life and all the wonderful things it will offer you each and every day. Take care of yourself and know that this was NOT your fault. Remember you are beautiful and worth everything good in life.

 

He will realize how much IN LOVE he really is in about 5 month, when it is to late and he lost the best thing he ever had and why? all because he is so in love:-)

 

 

You be strong!