ignore her calls and im's?- or try and talk

[rd1978]

she said she wants to be single and not worry about anything,,she said she wants to be able to go on dates if someone asks her,,, she says she doesnt want to have to worry about anyone,,, etc. etc. so its over after 5 years,, we had our issues like everyone else,,, she just got a new job,,, been tanning and shopping,, hanging out with this new guy who isnt very good looking, he was a friend of hers and wanted more,,, so nows she single and when he asks her to hang otu i dont think she is turning him down,, I told her if she didnt know what she wants then we cannot talk and DONT call me... she called me for days after that then got the point when i didnt awnser,, so 2 weeks later i hung out with her she asked me,, i didnt call her at all,,,but i finally awnsered her calls after she kept calling crying,, so i told her not to call me if she's seeing someone else { thats fair right }????so we hung out there was definant tension i want to wrap my hands around this kids neck tall skinny dweeb, but i cated fine she was the 1 with the attitude, i could tell she was grumpy, but we didint do anyhting to break the ice,,, nothing fun,,, it was her idea to go away for the weekend but that didnt happen,, so she went for a ride to get me a new cell phone,, thens he wanted to come over that night with a movie but it got late so the next day she called like ten times and we talked,, so she calls me that night and is like i was grumpy today and what not , so i told her i knew that but we didnt do anything fun,,,so she says i just dont feel it right now so i said ok im going to miss you and i love you but if thats how its goign to be then you have to promise me something,,,, and i told her you do whatever it takes not to contact me you cannot call me or instant message me or email me,, then she said but i miss you when i dont talk to you,,,but i told her she wont miss me she is already hangin out with someone else,,,

 

so she called every night and morning and 1 hour after that talk for 4 days,, i didnt awnser 2 weeks go by adn she has tried to instant message me 2 times so i just signed off on her ,, i almost feel she wants her cake and eat it to,,, she is on some kind of power trip,,,i might ant to work things out,, i know she had to do everything to give us time because if she did get back with me nothing would have been solved,, i dont want to push her away to far but i want her to mis me and think about what the hell she is doing with her life,, i think its a phase and she wants to feel different,, so if there is a next time which i know her there will be,, she has no clue what the hell ive been doing or if im seeing anyone,,it alsmot seemed like she wanted to go out and have her fun,,, but didnt fully think of the consiquenses,, i did tell her i wanted to work things out right after we broke up,,, and that blew her head up ,, but she almost knew that she couldnt and we did need a break,, and she also said,,, if i take time to think im afraid youll go off and meet someone and ill be stuck by herself,, in the past month ive called 4 time,, and they were just calling back ,, and she has called like 25, i dont get it , you make the decision to set me free THEN have the balls to leave me alone and deal with your decision,, personally i think she needs a reality check,,,,{ silence kills }

[slimmontana]

Wow I understand where you are coming from....Stick To Your Guns! I just wish I could give you a logical explanation for her behavior..but then would mean that I understand women! Then I would not be going through the same drama!