wizard08 Posted May 31, 2004 Share Posted May 31, 2004 I once read/heard somewhere that if you don't have a girfriend there may be something physically wrong with you. I am actually begining to believe this and it's hopeless. I am 22 years old and have just finished university. I have never had a girl-friend as much as I would like one. I really used to try but now i think it even isn't half worth the effort. So i don't even bother now. * runs to the hills All my attempts have failed and so I have given up hope. My most recent attempt happened at work. Well i know this girl and she seems to like me I mean i do think that she is a bit young around 17/18 years of age. I'm on my till at work and she comes round to pick up some left-over items behind my till and she brushes/touches me on the shoulder. This has happened on more than one occasion maybe I'm reading too much into it. And another thing she jokingly makes fun of me, I was in a bit of a mood and she asked me what's wrong with you and all sorths of other things. They put me on a trolley run and picking up baskets from my trolly run she said something and i coundn't hear what she said and then she said you not talking to me and laughed. I mean what should i do you think i'm just getting my hopes up she is good-looking. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 You did not mention anything about asking her on a date. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I once read/heard somewhere that if you don't have a girfriend there may be something physically wrong with you Don't believe everything you read. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wizard08 Posted June 1, 2004 Author Share Posted June 1, 2004 well I don't know whether I should. I woundn't be able to bear rejection and i think she's already taken. I don't know for sure even if she likes me! I could just be getting my hopes up Link to post Share on other sites
ElMuchacho Posted June 2, 2004 Share Posted June 2, 2004 Originally posted by wizard08 well I don't know whether I should. I woundn't be able to bear rejection and i think she's already taken. I don't know for sure even if she likes me! I could just be getting my hopes up With this kind of thinking, do you really expect to ever get a girlfriend? Nothing ventured, nothing gained my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wizard08 Posted June 4, 2004 Author Share Posted June 4, 2004 no what I mean do you think she likes me ! Link to post Share on other sites
aljo1 Posted June 6, 2004 Share Posted June 6, 2004 Here's my advise to you my friend: if you're not sure if she likes you or not, ask her. Try to forget about any insecureness that youmigt have--forget about how old you are and never have had a girlfriend!!! Try to develop your personality to a more fun, outgoing, caring and even flirty person(smile a lot), make her smile and laugh--that will win her heart gradually--keep on approaching her without giving up--but try to find out one way or the other that she's interested in you. If not, don't lose hope, there's plenty fishes in the ocean, as long as you're making your personality more beautiful-they will lie you more as a friend, boyfriend, husband--you'll see!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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