fenderjames Posted December 30, 2011 Share Posted December 30, 2011 Well , after 4.5 months of her not talking to me ( full NC ) she called to wish me a merry Xmas . I was floored . Kept the conversation platonic , I didnt bring up the 100 questions I have . Gave out little info on what Id been up too , and spoke slowly and clearly . Kept it very light hearted and ended the call by going back into work ( which was true ) . Felt real good for awhile .... and now I expect a happy NY call tomorrow . I gave up a long time ago to try and figure out what she is thinking , but I'm a bit flabbergasted she called . I imagine it wasn't an easy call to make - she did me wrong big time . So I take that into consideration and am glad I didn't give her the " 3rd degree " ..... I would be totally justified to do so . Thing is now I'm thinking about her again alot . I can honestly say it was so good to hear her voice , and I've felt better than I have in months just by her offering that sentiment . There is no question that I still love this girl very much and prob always will (although in a different way as the time goes by) . No point really to be made hear . Just needed to write this down . Happy New Year folks . Link to post Share on other sites
spicolli Posted December 30, 2011 Share Posted December 30, 2011 Im happy that you are feeling better, its a great thing to read when someone says I am happier than I have been in months. The only thing I would be weary of is the statement "im expecting a ny call tmrw." You went into work today not expecting to hear from her and you did, and it made you happy, if you expect a call and god forbid it doesn't come, I fear it would hurt you. Stay guarded, enjoy the thought that you must really be a great person for her to have reached out after this period of silence. Link to post Share on other sites
TheJiltedGeneration Posted December 31, 2011 Share Posted December 31, 2011 (edited) heya Fender great she was the first one to break NC, but that is unfortunately not synonymous with her "understanding she was in the wrong". I guess I always have that " be wary could be false pretense" mentality as my typical rotating beacon, but yea it sounds like you got the right idea of just being polite but don't fall into the trap of feeling raptured by her contact. There could be a nasty motive veiled by the seemingly innocent seasonal tiding.. When she the first one to accknowledge what went wrong and shows genuine remorse, then I would at least keep her meaning at face value until she shows she has grown up.. otherwise.. expect she's just relenting because of something that doesn't quite translate to "unconditional" love...... Edited December 31, 2011 by TheJiltedGeneration Link to post Share on other sites
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