Shattered dreams Posted December 31, 2011 Share Posted December 31, 2011 My ex bf for 12 years broke up abt 3 months ago, we migrated together last sept and then i found out he was having an affair and is now in a long distance relationship... We didnt talk for 2 months and i moved out of the house... Since i live with his relatives its impossoble for us not to see each other.. One day we just talked and patched things up as friends... We hang arous everyday and talk non stop if he's at work... Tho i know he is still continuing his long distance rel.. We still have sex and he still tells me he loves me so much but we can't be together.. He wanta to provide for me and make me happy... Although we agreed on being friends, the way he acts an the way our relationship is still like we are together... I honestly want us to be back together, i dont know if what im doing is right.. To continue talking to him and seeing him... I dont know if it will lead to him realizing that he wants to be with me... I can see and feel that he cant live without me.. But he's afraid of hurting me again... What ahould i do??? Need help! Link to post Share on other sites
chados Posted January 3, 2012 Share Posted January 3, 2012 My ex bf for 12 years broke up abt 3 months ago, we migrated together last sept and then i found out he was having an affair and is now in a long distance relationship... We didnt talk for 2 months and i moved out of the house... Since i live with his relatives its impossoble for us not to see each other.. One day we just talked and patched things up as friends... We hang arous everyday and talk non stop if he's at work... Tho i know he is still continuing his long distance rel.. We still have sex and he still tells me he loves me so much but we can't be together.. He youre doing everything you arent supposed to do, why in the world are you having sex with him knowing he's seeing someone else?.. read this tread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t311606/ Link to post Share on other sites
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