mich81 Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Plain and simple... guys and gals... Put yourself in my shoes... I am a 22 year old female... What would be the oldest and youngest guy you would date? I ask this because I have always tended to date guys that are about the same age or slightly younger, but my sister wants to set me up with her husbands friend who is almost 10 years older then me. I just wanted to see what people generally would think! Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Think about what? 22 & 32 - there is no reason why you couldn't get along & have a successful relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mich81 Posted June 1, 2004 Author Share Posted June 1, 2004 Thank you... I guess I am just looking for some reassurance. Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I agree - 10 years older is not a problem. Since you're only 22, I would think anyone more than one year younger than you could pose a problem. Anyone under 18, of course, is an absolute no-no! Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I would never, ever date anyone under the age of 18 for legal reasons, as I am over 18 myself. I prefer not to date anyone younger than 21, as I find that at my age even two-year age gap feels worlds away. This gap, however, varies from individual to individual. I am uncertain of the maximum age I would date, as I feel this would depend more on the gap in lifetime experiences, and how well we interacted over a period of time. Link to post Share on other sites
abbyroadme Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I don't see anything with a ten year difference. Since my Grandparents were 11 years difference between them and they were very much in love. Link to post Share on other sites
Shere Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 This is a difficult forum and subject matter to say the least. Please understand I do not claim or desire to instill any judgement to you or otherwise. You do not know me, or atleast heard from me individually. To quickly surmise this situation let me say I cannot directly direct feelings that you or I may have but life or current issues sometimes seem confusing to me yes. Eloquent not one of my finer aspects to offer; forgive me I am in a diffused and sometime confusing [getting there]situation and future relies on events effected deeply on the recent past. Believe. Life dictates that we cannot control, yet somewhat in my outlook I offer this. Do not ever give in to what we ourselves feel in our heart, or to take the high road that others may not fully understand. I admire those who challenge that deem difficult or impassable. Also, life does include set patterns in our decision-making that excludes what catagorizes rightous. My life's choices' that may parallel and deal with [s/O, lovers of the past, friends, ect] deem a personal upbringing or due to years left or wisdom may/maynot create upset or denial hurt to the brightest lightness being in life. This does not mean for any moment or choice of matter is any less or more. Just an acceptance that we all or must endure towards life's growth; I welcome now calm, peace... To be young at heart, is not deflected by sight but by minds' eye and heart. I reflect much to offer by way you/our enduring outlook and determination that many are either afraid or choose to deny. I admire your strength, and your individuality. I am also one to step aside and dependently have hurtful mistakes. Difficult choices in life. I praise those who press on with positive note, however, this is a continual process for you or those we care and love involved. However, I seek you and find in heart, that any acceptance of myself may easily ignored, forgotton, disregarded, or difficult or reply! I am not your judge or enemy. With our youth, choose to trespass hate or hurt to others now, I beckon you. Behold our time. Uplift self or all that we engage in the future, A humble true decision much easier than hate to despair. Yet easy to say vs recognize I prey, choice in situations involving trust or hurt, surly love. Be it in our past, current or future; what may be yesterday, certainly today but all that we can be and more... Love one another, forgive, and peace to our fellow kind and family...May God bless you and cherish as I do my friends and family to loved ones I hold dear and close to heart for as long as I shall choose to live and you, forever. I love, and you. Link to post Share on other sites
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