greatneck Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 ok ineed advise. I have a gf that goes out with one of her freinds on FRi night. Not to often but when she does I get real insecure. Her freind is cheating on her hubby with some guy she works with. This is what upsets me. When my gf goes out with her freind she never once took a call from me. For 3 years not once has she picked up her cell phone. Why doesnt she... I've seen freinds of mine avoid taking calls from Gf's when they are out. The reason is they are hanging out with girls at the bar. Also just a quick story My GF and her freind went shopping on a fri night then went out to get a drink. My GF told me the next day they went to victoria secrets. She got some new high tec bra and she wanted to show me. Now her freind also got the same bra. My gf told me that while they were out at a bar her freind went out to the car to get the new bra to show these guys at the bar. Then she went into the bathroom to try it on for them. I asked my gf well what was she doing. She says she was talking to some girl that was at the bar.ummmmmmmmmmm Also she cheats on her hubby. Now i have been cheated on by my ex wife. There were so many signs I just wasnt paying attention. Is that what is happing here. The never taking my call when out on fri nights freaks me out. Also I leave her a v mail. She calls me when she is driving home @ like 1:30 2:00 am. Why doesnt she take my call. And then why if she knows that im a little freaked about the whole thing with her going out with this girl why wouldnt she call me just to reasure me. Like if she did that even onetime. I would feel so much better. I try to talk to her about it she just gets mad. I want to feel better about this . I don't want her not to hang out with her freind. She always says you are putting me down. That she is so loyal. I tell her I know but its just an insecurity that I really want to put behind us. She doesnt want to hear about it. I think that hurts me even more than anything. Somtimes she gets messed up feelings. I do my best to help her with them. I feel if the person I love is feeling insecure in our relationship. I want to help her through it. Everyone feels insecure at times. This thing Im feeling bad about is really effecting our relationship. She doesnt and wont listen or try to understand. I feel like I am not even a little important to her. Link to post Share on other sites
average guy Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I had a gf do this before (the night out alone) and she was cheating on me, so I hate to say it but my vote is that she is cheating, or that she is seriously on her way to cheating on you (especially with a "cheating friend" for influence. Anyway, I hope I'm wrong, but that's my gut feeling on this one Best of luck A.G. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts