ruffianheart Posted January 8, 2012 Share Posted January 8, 2012 Just curious from anyone who has been a "Dumper" (since I presume when "Dumpees" try to reach out and have been blocked, it's more obvious how they might feel). Did you ever try to reach out to an ex and found you had been blocked (email, phone number disconnected, blocked phone number, etc.)? What were your initial thoughts? Were you angry, sad, annoyed, or it just didn't bother you? Did you give up or try another way to reach the ex? I realize that the "Dumper" isn't usually reaching out to reconcile, but regardless of the reason, I am curious to know how you felt. Looking forward to hearing your responses. Link to post Share on other sites
GG3 Posted January 8, 2012 Share Posted January 8, 2012 Are you the dumper? My ex was always the dumper. (He dumped me more than once.) I got tired of his jerking me around and would block him. He was usually pretty upset when I blocked him. I think he always wanted to just know that I was there for him even though he dumped me. Trying to have his cake and eat it too.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author ruffianheart Posted January 9, 2012 Author Share Posted January 9, 2012 Thank you for your reply, GG3. No, I was the Dumpee. In September I blocked my ex from everything. Lately I have been feeling a little anxiety about blocking him because I have had this strange feeling that he did reach out. It's probably just wishful thinking on my part. I guess I'll never know. Link to post Share on other sites
childishregrets Posted January 9, 2012 Share Posted January 9, 2012 (edited) Yeah i reached out after an abusive relationship once... She messed me about on the phone with lies and started a huge row so i finnished with her due to having no honesty at all.This was her intention though as the second paragraph will show the reason. I expected her to come back but after 2 weeks passed i found out she had eyes for someone we both knew so i ended up quickly being replaced and the phone number was changed after 3 weeks.I got the new number but never got a sorry or admission of guilt or fault. 7 weeks they move in togeather, 6 years later engaged then marriage and a kid and im still waiting on explanation or her to reach out.Ive lost all contact with her now and have basically though of her as sub human for the last 6 years if that answers your question? Edited January 9, 2012 by childishregrets Link to post Share on other sites
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