Kevin Kristopher Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I just found out that my ex-girlfriend has been recently talking to another guy behind my back and i say behind my back because though we're not together we do things like we'retogether and occasionally have sex but i desperately need to know what i should do. I mean she did find out that i hooked up with two other girls but i need to know if she really is looking for another man or what? an she can't still be mad at me for hooking up with these two other girls cuz she doesn't want a boyfriend. So i despertaley need help on what i should do, an i found out cuz i have her e-mail password an she e-mailed a friend saying that she went to visit him in san diego on her roadtrip back to northern california with her best friend. Please Help???? Link to post Share on other sites
azgirl Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Unfortunately, dude ... it still isn't really "behind your back" if you guys aren't together. I understand that you hang out and still occasionally have sex, but that doesn't make you TOGETHER and if you aren't together then she is free to do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. It sucks, but it's true. YOU hooked up with other women. You honestly can't expect her to NOT be with you and not explore other opportunities, as well. Link to post Share on other sites
2ndConfusedfemale Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 I agree with the poster above. She's technically free to do whatever she wants...You should stop trying to have her to yourself, while you are able to have the other 2 females you were with. If it really hurts your feelings then you need to leave her alone for real, or tell her that you want more than what she's giving. But you know your relationship better than I, if you broke up for a good reason, leave it alone. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Ex-girlfirend is talkign to another guy behind my back Sorry that doesn't make any sense. Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 She's your ex! C'mon. I don't care if you still sleep together, you don't have a relationship - other than being f*ck buddies. You were with others, she can be too. Get over it. Are you wanting her back now? Because she is interested in someone else? Although that is quite lame, if that's what you want, you need to go about it some other way. You can't get all jealous before you try to reconcile with her. And stay off her email account for crying out loud! What she emails to her friends is absolutely none of your business! -Deranged Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kevin Kristopher Posted June 1, 2004 Author Share Posted June 1, 2004 I know but like a year ago we decided mutually that we should time out but i wanted to get back together but she didn't want to. i told her my feelings and everything and i don't talk to the 2 girls i hooked up with but i needed some female attention and i wasn't getting it from her so i hooked up. She gets mad an jealous when she see's girls numbers in my phone. we go to school in arizona an b4 she left i was with her all day an she was going to san diego, she lied an said she was going to visit a girl friend but it was anothe guy, geez, wheres the honesty. an the e-mails was because i had the access and temptation is a ma f*cker Link to post Share on other sites
azgirl Posted June 1, 2004 Share Posted June 1, 2004 Kev- Sounds like you need to move on, buddy. I mean, if she's lying to you now and you're NOT together, she'd lie to you if you were. I know it sucks, but you should probably let her go. Do you stay for the summer?? There are tons of chicks down there on campus. I go there, too! Get out and find yourself a new one. One that feels the same way about you as you do about her. Don't waste anymore time with this nonsense. Don't you want someone who is honest. Clearly she is hiding something, because why couldn't she just tell you that she was going to visit this guy - after all you guys aren't together so what reason did she have for lying? Link to post Share on other sites
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