LilMissMovinOn Posted January 9, 2012 Share Posted January 9, 2012 In the words of a dear friend, 'it takes a lot of crap to grow a beautiful rose' (well actually he uses a worse word than crap, starting with 'sh' but I'm trying to learn to curb my swearing as I know it sounds terrible & is most unladylike, however, I digress...) In feeling very down today it occurred to me to use an exercise to help me put things into perspective. The exercise is to make a list of things I am grateful for. So, if yr a B.S, W.S, A.P, or ex of any of these, or a combination of them even, I invite people to share here. What are you grateful for in light of yr experience as relevent to the OM/OW topic? Here's mine for today.. 1. I am alive & too sensible to allow myself to do anything even more stupid than what I have already done 2. I have a small but caring & compassionate circle of friends& family who are literally carrying me through everything which is going on in my life right now, including learning I had been an OW & the fallout from this. 3. I am ok financially & not homeless. 4. I have maintained N.C even though unsolicited emails frm xWP (wayward person unmarried) have triggered me big time... That's my bit for today. Link to post Share on other sites
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