fiat500 Posted January 12, 2012 Share Posted January 12, 2012 (edited) Sugarkane, listen to GreenPolicy's post. I was broken up in the same way you were. You're feeling so much anger because your dignity and respect were stripped away from you as you were dumped. Your ex looked down on you and left you feeling powerless about the relationship. You didn't deserve to be looked down on. I know how this feels! You're taking what he said to heart because you cared about him. It was a low blow. My ex called me crazy over a facebook instant message breakup and, like you, I never retaliated, argued, or stood up for myself since he had already convinced himself of these stupid lies and was going to go through with breaking up with me despite hurting me deeply with the sh*t he was saying. He even had a girl from his campus lined up before kicking me to the curb and he was dating her within a month of telling me he didn't feel anything for me anymore and that I was "crazy." He had pictures of him and her all over his facebook posing in matching hoodies and you know what? Within two months they broke up and he was dating a new girl. What does that make him sound like? A tool. And that's what your ex is also. Like GreenPolicy has said, your ex is an insecure coward and had to reduce you to a doormat in order to make himself feel better about the breakup. He is a piece of sh*t and will get back what he did to you one day. You can't hurt someone on a deep emotional level without repercussions. It says a lot about his character. He will not treat anyone much better despite what you think. But it will come back to him. I know you cared about him and it's hard to get around the bitterness and betrayal but sometimes you have to force yourself to walk away from these feelings. Edited January 12, 2012 by fiat500 Link to post Share on other sites
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