opslimit Posted January 10, 2012 Share Posted January 10, 2012 I haven't Been on LS in about 4 months as i thought i was over my EX pretty much, but i cannot lie to myself anymore im not and i don't know why. The story pretty much was that i was getting ready to graduate college and i met her my last semester and we hit it off great, she was a huge part of my life and we had a great time together until i found out that she had cheated on me with her EX 4 months in. I of course broke up with her, but gave in to 2 weeks of her crying and pleading with me to give her a second chance. I did and ultimately payed the price for it because she broke up with me right as i was about to move 4 hours away for my job for graduation, ONLY to start messaging me a month later how she missed me and so forth which then turned into us having sex and beginning a LDR that lasted all the way until December when i found out she was texting her EX again and she broke it off because she said that she couldn't deal with me being so angry about that because in her words "he was just a friend". Since then i have moved on and been working out and focusing on my job only to have her call me (turned into a huge fight) i found out she has already slept with him again and now checking her FB (stupid, i know) i see shes having the time of her life. I dont know what else i can do at this point, i know shes bad for me and i know we will never get back together, but the feelings that i get from seeing her are to overwhelming. I haven't talked to her in probably a month and I will not do anything stupid like drunk texting/calling, and i have already been with one girl during NYE, but i just cant shake these feelings Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted January 10, 2012 Share Posted January 10, 2012 Sounds like she wants to keep all of her options open and for you to be ok with it. Everyone is entitled to draw the line and your line is very understanding. One should be thankful that you accepted her back after cheating but she instead pushed the limit. Focus on yourself and make your own dreams come true now. Go NC and stop looking at her facebook. It will bring you nothing but pain right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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