kaylan Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 The problem is, they never tell you. Which is why I test people by bringing up my "friend's" situation and judge their responses. Either way, anyone who would ever lie to me about their past is not someone Id want to be with. I let girls know from the get go that if they ever lie to be about anything they know I find important, that im out of there quicker than road runner. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 He said he cheated on her before they got married and she sort of punished him for that still, but he doesn't bash her. He says he loves his wife and I wish their marriage succeeds. So he has cheated on her more than once, but he loves her. Thats a good one. We spent all day together yesterday and I haven't felt that good in a long time. I know I will not fall in love with him because I don't really find him attractive in any way. He is just a friend in my eyes, with some appreciation and willingness to please me sexually. I don't really care. I am still single. Ok great. Keep up the good work. Why did you even post this? Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Er, congratulations? Were you wanting a golf clap, a medal or something? Uh ya, what Glinda said Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 She didn't really come here for advice, but saying she was bragging is false. No where do I see a person who is bragging. She's a smart women who's put herself in a bad situation. She knows she's better then this. She knows better. She just doesn't care. And she doesn't care who she is helping to hurt. Maybe someday RP will get married and the same thing will happen to her. Then maybe she'll care. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Well, I know I didn't get anything from him or he from me. Hopefully, his wife won't find the box of condoms. Hopefully, she does Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 She knows better. She just doesn't care. And she doesn't care who she is helping to hurt. Maybe someday RP will get married and the same thing will happen to her. Then maybe she'll care. I was just starting to really respect the stuff she was posting as well, ohh well!! Link to post Share on other sites
robf1971 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Rob, where are you getting this info from? . Just a common or garden walk away wife, thankfully no cheating but same principles apply. Anyway we reconciled, but I don't look at things quite the same way anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 I was just starting to really respect the stuff she was posting as well, ohh well!! Yes, it kind of took me aback as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Ursa Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Maybe someday RP will get married and the same thing will happen to her. Then maybe she'll care. If I recall correctly, RP has been married, and is still emotionally dealing with the fallout from her divorce. I think her ex-h's infidelity was an issue in the marriage, but I might be mixing her up with someone else on that point. I have seen you post about issues with your ex and kids repeatedly, RP. Now someone in this thread claims this ONS with a married man is not an isolated event, but the 2nd event in what is on the verge of becoming a pattern. Others are suggesting AA, which makes me wonder if they know something more. I know you like to present as being in control, but all of these factors make me worry that you are actually in a tailspin. Link to post Share on other sites
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