Chi townD Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Sorry you obviously dislike me and feel very negative and low towards me, very unfortunate! I'm sorry. Hope Oliver doing well! Bye LOL! I'm sorry, but I giggled when I read that...very unfortunate? REALLY?!?!? Who talks like that? Obviously this guy is a douche rocket. It might be "very unfortunate" for him. But very fortunate for you to be rid of someone like that. Link to post Share on other sites
GaelicSoul Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Hi Nature, I think that message reeks of arrogance and desperation from you Ex, especially after 2 years of NC. My Ex GF and i haven't spoken in 1 year since our breakup in Jan 2011. If she text me something like that, i wouldn't flinch and remain NC, and would pity her that she hasn't matured emotionally and possessed an ego like that. It sounds to me that he is beginning to realize he hasn't a hold on you anymore, and is afraid now. Maybe also seeing if can he touch a nerve, and also to get a reaction from you. He may be one of these people, that likes to think everybody likes him because of his ego, and cant bare the thought of somebody out there who doesn't. This is eating away at him, even after all this time. I don't think you have heard the last from him, i expect more abuse from him in the future. You haven't sunk to his level, and i admire that. Fair play to you nature, keep us updated if he contacts again, and don't reply GS Link to post Share on other sites
Author nature Posted January 17, 2012 Author Share Posted January 17, 2012 Thanks ChiTown and Gaelic Soul. I appreciate you both responding. So good to see I'm not the only one who reacted the way I did to this email. Chi I was almost thinking he must have messed up by using the word "unfortunate" in the sentence, when he really meant something else, but was trying to sound poignant or something! lol Because it makes no sense using that word. But I guess he really meant it was unfortunate! lol Gaelic, it's interesting how you say it wreaks of arrogance, but also desperation. I have never thought of those two contradicting behaviours coming together. But I can see what you mean. The email is arrogantly written, with no sincere apology or acknowledgement of his behaviour being why I think negatively of him. Yet, he brings my dog into it, knowing I'm a huge animal person and Oliver is the love of my life, hoping to strike a sensitive spot in me by wishing Oliver well. That's how I took it anyways. Thanks both so much! Link to post Share on other sites
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