AD1980 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Why does a women tell a man to lower his standards yet if we tell women to lower her standards on height the women brigade come and say women have a right to their preferences just move on to another girl It seems as if Men are told to lower thier standards yet women are told you deserve the sun moon and stars Link to post Share on other sites
misssmartypants Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 I have never met a woman with height requirements. I have never met a man who didn't have weight/ figure/body type requirements. Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 I don't get it. I'm young and thin, why cant I atleast have a woman that falls under that character? I don't even care that much about being all that young. All women who are 5'10 are looking for a guy that is insanely tall , like 6'4, and being a 6'4 male is much rarer than a thin woman. Yet nobody would even dream of saying that to a woman that is 5'10. You and Somedude are so positive that it's your looks that women are negatively reacting to, that women want men who are taller/more muscular/whatever. You are looking at yourselves in the mirror and saying," I'm thin, I should get a thin woman!" Problem with this is 1) men tend to usually overestimate their own looks. (http://www.sirc.org/publik/mirror.html) and 2) women don't think in the same terms. Personally, I don't think it's your looks at all. I think it's your bitterness, resentment and pessimism that put women off. The chorus to this old song goes: "It's your attitude and not your height or your physical appearance that make you unattractive." Fun fact: Peter Dinklage has a huge female fan following. I myself have a total lady boner for him. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 You and Somedude are so positive that it's your looks that women are negatively reacting to, that women want men who are taller/more muscular/whatever. You are looking at yourselves in the mirror and saying," I'm thin, I should get a thin woman!" Problem with this is 1) men tend to usually overestimate their own looks. (http://www.sirc.org/publik/mirror.html) and 2) women don't think in the same terms. Personally, I don't think it's your looks at all. I think it's your bitterness, resentment and pessimism that put women off. The chorus to this old song goes: "It's your attitude and not your height or your physical appearance that make you unattractive." Fun fact: Peter Dinklage has a huge female fan following. I myself have a total lady boner for him. I don't think its their bitterness turning women off. I think they've given up because of their negative what's the point mentality. They don't even try that hard. Link to post Share on other sites
AD1980 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 I have never met a woman with height requirements. :laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 While there are some guys who over estimate their looks, I sure don't. I know exactly where I stand on the ladder, regardless of what women say or thin. Now if you want to say women don't think in the same terms, you're probably right. A young thin woman =/= a young thin male. A young thin woman = a young tall muscular rich firefighter with a goldman sachs trust and a Lamborghini. I think you have the equation wrong. Like 20-100 young thin women = one tall rich guy. GTFO , don't insult my intelligence. That guy has a female following because he's a famous actor. If he was some dwarf walking down the street no women would want him. I guess men aren't shallow either since Bridget the Midget had a huge following as well Umm men pretty shallow too. You need to get over your self. I seriosly laugh at your problems they'd be so easy for me to solve if I just had a few hours to jump into your mind. Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 While there are some guys who over estimate their looks, I sure don't. I know exactly where I stand on the ladder, regardless of what women say or thin. Now if you want to say women don't think in the same terms, you're probably right. A young thin woman =/= a young thin male. A young thin woman = a young tall muscular rich firefighter with a goldman sachs trust and a Lamborghini. I won't bother arguing with you for the 10,000 time that it isn't true, so, then, looks like you're gonna need to get rich and muscular if you want a thin young girl. That's the asking price. That is the "market value" of being a thin young woman. So either go shopping for something cheaper, or save up so you can afford the hot trophy. GTFO , don't insult my intelligence. That guy has a female following because he's a famous actor. If he was some dwarf walking down the street no women would want him. I guess men aren't shallow either since Bridget the Midget had a huge following as well Yeah, he's a famous actor, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't still get play if he wasn't. He dated and married his pretty-darn-good-looking-wife prior to making it big. The only way your comparison would work and prove that men aren't as shallow is if there was an equally large following of straight males for an overweight/obese actress, since by your logic short in men = overweight/obese in women. Link to post Share on other sites
verhrzn Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Considering the fact that I'm 23 years old , I don't know what is so insane about the whole "young girl " thing. And I don't care about age, I just doubt a woman in her 30's would want to be with a guy whose still in school and doesnt have a "real" job yet. I agree that this is the market price for a girl that's not fat, so what? IT doesn't make it right. That is exactly why I stopped trying. I'm in pretty good shape and would want a girl who has atleast an AVERAGE build. If not being fat makes you a trophy (unfortunately, it does in America), then so be it. It wouldn't be right if it were true. But we've already established that you live in the Upside Down Land of New York City, and regularly insult girls who you feel haven't given you proper deference, so... LOL there was a dwarf that looks just like that guy in my high school, minus the goatee. And while girls loved to coo him and pick him up and other patronizing ****, the fact of the matter is he was likely a virgin. He was still getting to touch girls and be in their laps (even supposing you're right) which is a lot more than you're getting right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Dust Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Yes, and all that means is that one guy is banging/stringing along those 20-100 women , while they ignore the rest of us. Women go out of their way to ignore men... So it's you start going out of your way not be ignored. Well dust' date=' you claim you are "tall dark and handsome", and if true, then I too would be getting poon everywhere just by telling a waitress the table is wobbly or baby talking at them. [/quote'] Haha you remembered that story eh! Look women would enjoy the baby talk from you too. I know you're not baby talking them. Seriously I'd let you push me around in a wheel chair while wearing a paper bag which would make me the equivelent of sitting height and have women slight horified they can't see my face. I'd still pull women pretty young things! You're making it out to be harder then it is. You know as well as I do how women work. Unlike me you sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Even with my good looks, and charm it was all worth nothing when I didn't try. Now start trying! I wish ShannonMI was still here...I think she got ban she was always calling you cute... and god did you see her profile pic she was a fox. So sexy, and she had trouble saying no to guys. Just imagine the dirty stuff you could have talked her into. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 You and Somedude are so positive that it's your looks that women are negatively reacting to, that women want men who are taller/more muscular/whatever....Personally, I don't think it's your looks at all. I think it's your bitterness, resentment and pessimism that put women off. The chorus to this old song goes: "It's your attitude and not your height or your physical appearance that make you unattractive." It's interesting you'd say that verhrzn. It may be the problem. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 You and Somedude are so positive that it's your looks that women are negatively reacting to, that women want men who are taller/more muscular/whatever....Personally, I don't think it's your looks at all. I think it's your bitterness, resentment and pessimism that put women off. The chorus to this old song goes: "It's your attitude and not your height or your physical appearance that make you unattractive." It's interesting you'd say that verhrzn. It may be the problem. I really wish I could test that. Too bad I can't suddenly change my attitude or my height to see which would have the most affect. Link to post Share on other sites
Michael30 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Why does a women tell a man to lower his standards yet if we tell women to lower her standards on height the women brigade come and say women have a right to their preferences just move on to another girl It seems as if Men are told to lower thier standards yet women are told you deserve the sun moon and stars That's how most women are. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Come on ladies, can one of you please take one for the team and just f*ck the angry out of Wolf? Link to post Share on other sites
Michael30 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Come on ladies, can one of you please take one for the team and just f*ck the angry out of Wolf? I'm angry too so f*ck the madness outta me. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Come on ladies, can one of you please take one for the team and just f*ck the angry out of Wolf? You know, I'm only a short plane flight to SF... Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 I It was RARE for someone to be overweight. NOW...girls just let all their fat rolls and muffin top hang out without a care in the world. They let it hang over their jeans, with their bellies lopped out over their belts. I seriously do NOT understand it. Definitely generational. The Fat Kid was a rarity when I was young. Because both men and women today see all the people who are much fatter than they are they say, "Well, I'm not as fat as she is." Perhaps if they were surrounded by thinner people they'd lose the extra weight. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 I'm angry too so f*ck the madness outta me. You know, I'm only a short plane flight to SF... I'm not offering my services sorry But there must be a lady out there that would be willing. I think it would be a win-win situation Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 That's absolutely accurate because it channels the awesome power of the male libido ... Nooo. That's just a bunch of semi-mystical mental masturbation. All a guy needs to do is get his life in order and then, after the career and prowess (at SOMETHING) are done, do what you need to do to date what you like. A lot of guys are unwilling to do the work and then on top of that unwilling to do whatever it takes to date what they like. Self sabotage. I haven't dated a woman who needed 3 digits to express her weight in decades. My last 3-4 GF were around 5' 2 and 90 pounds, which to me is a really nice size, although the current GF is a little smaller. Also I'm not what you would call an oil painting myself. Women don't see men the way men see women. It's a fundamental fact of life. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 I haven't dated a woman who needed 3 digits to express her weight in decades. I know I'll get flamed for this but I would love it if my weight was 2 digits Link to post Share on other sites
123321 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 I know I'll get flamed for this but I would love it if my weight was 2 digits Eh, it depends on your frame really. The women I've been dating tend to be small boned and well, just small. If you're much over 5' or have a frame bigger than a bird then 99 and below is probably not for you. I just don't know you so i can't say. Very few women need to be over 125 or so, however, and most could be around 110 really easily and healthily. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 I'm not offering my services sorry But there must be a lady out there that would be willing. I think it would be a win-win situation Bah, now I have to cancel my flight. Honestly though. Getting laid wouldn't be enough for me. I'd actually need a relationship. I just wonder which one is actually easier to get. Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Eh, it depends on your frame really. The women I've been dating tend to be small boned and well, just small. If you're much over 5' or have a frame bigger than a bird then 99 and below is probably not for you. I just don't know you so i can't say. Very few women need to be over 125 or so, however, and most could be around 110 really easily and healthily. I know. I'm 5'4 and not over 125. I do have a very small frame so I feel like weight just looks horrid on me. I'm healthy physically and mentally but I definitely have those "you can never be too thin or too pretty" moments. Anyways, back to the topic Link to post Share on other sites
allina Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 Bah, now I have to cancel my flight. Honestly though. Getting laid wouldn't be enough for me. I'd actually need a relationship. I just wonder which one is actually easier to get. Honestly, I'm not sure what the issue is with you. You seem like you have a good personality (when you're not being overly negative). You looked good in the pic you posted, so I feel like you shouldn't be having these issues. I know you aren't tall, but I don't think that's as big of a deal as you guys are making it out to be. I genuinely do hope you find love and happiness, you deserve it Link to post Share on other sites
Michael30 Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 I'm not offering my services sorry But there must be a lady out there that would be willing. I think it would be a win-win situation Aww I don't want a street hooker!:( Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 18, 2012 Share Posted January 18, 2012 "Stay Alpha" - Wolf18 . wtf???? Link to post Share on other sites
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