Meeting Mrs. Right?

[Naaman]

My girlfriend of 2.5 years just recently broke up with me. I now find my self single and clueless on meeting women. First of all I am shy. Not a lot, but enought to the point where I can't go and start a conversation. I just want to know how and where is a good place to meet somebody. I go to bars and clubs a lot and I get get looks and smiles but I don't realy know what to do from there. Also clubs probably are not the best place to meet some one. But then where?

[koko]

Hi Naaman

 

I'm sorry to hear of your break-up - 2.5yrs

 

although not a life time is still a long time.

 

I don't think clubs & pubs are the

 

most appropriate place to meet someone

 

with a view to a serious relationship.

 

If you are interested in sports, sailing or

 

basically any kind of social hobby - you

 

could possibly try meeting someone this

 

way! If you are a liitle shy it is usually a

 

good start to be in an environment where you feel comfortable within yourself .

 

I've been out of a four year relationship for only a short time & in some ways have

 

the same trouble as you. The one thing I

 

know for sure is not to try too hard...when

 

the right person comes along things will

 

"click".

 

I hope this has been of some help.

 

Good Luck

 

Koko

My girlfriend of 2.5 years just recently broke up with me. I now find my self single and clueless on meeting women. First of all I am shy. Not a lot, but enought to the point where I can't go and start a conversation. I just want to know how and where is a good place to meet somebody. I go to bars and clubs a lot and I get get looks and smiles but I don't realy know what to do from there. Also clubs probably are not the best place to meet some one. But then where?