Bad night...maybe because it's Friday

[nevadagirl]

I don't know what stage this is. Lately I feel less angry though I have every right to stay angry forever if you ask me...but just more lonely. I feel sadder.

 

I really really miss my ex.

 

Someone just tell me this is a stage. We've been broken up about 4 months but actual no contact has been less than that. He's never respected no contact but I guess he finally got it through his head that I would never respond again so he stopped.

 

While I know I'll never try to talk to him again I feel these urges to check up...do the facebook/twitter/google search stalk.

 

Any words of encouragement to get through a lonely rainy night?

[perfectlyflawed459]

First off, I would encourage you to fight urge to snoop social media to check up on him. It will only make you feel worse, especially if you see something you do not want to see.

 

The break up is still pretty fresh, and you haven't been NC that long so this is all very normal in your road to healing. You are going to have many ups and downs, but just know that each day you are gaining strength. Even the smallest bit of strength helps a lot. Remember, even on your weakest days, you get a little stronger

 

Since it is a rainy night, why not have a comedy movie night or something? Smiling and laughter can be the best medicine at times and a little humor can help get your mind off things for a bit

[lilyblue]

I go through stages too. The anger wanes, the missing him takes higher priority, but before long they switch. Most of the time they feel equal.. I'm so angry at him but I also miss him so much and would take him back. I'm not sure when they just fade. We've also been broken up for about 4 months, and NC for about the same time. Sorry I'm not more helpful, but in the same boat. It sucks. Hang in there.