adorablebabiii Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 How do you maintain No Contact with your ex, when there is a 5 month old baby involved?? We broke up 3 months ago..which was my fault. I take total blame for it, and have beat myself up for 3 months now. I have forgiven myself and asked that God forgive me to. I have apologized over and over again to my ex which they say they have forgiven me. At this point i feel like my ex is stringing me along. Call when he wants.. send funny text messages etc... But im honestly tired of the up and down with him. I have tried not answering my phone and not responding to text messages.. but i always think when he calls... He is calling about the baby... But nope.. its always about him going out, or he just bought himself these shoes etc... He didnt get the baby anything for Christmas as he said Christmas was to be continued because he has spent his money in other things.... Welll its almost Feb and our son stilll hasnt recieved anything from him on his first Christmas. I just not sure how i should go about No Contact. Should i just take it as a lost for my son and not answer the phone.. OR?? Advice would be appreciated! Thanks Again!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Buttercup84 Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 Why was it your fault ? I am very sorry , having a child when you are broken up must be very hard . Of course you can't have NC with a child , unless the father is abusive , in my opinion . But have a talk to him , and tell him you will only keep in contact if it is about your son . No talk about you or the dad , just your son . Keep it civil for the sake of your child no matter how hard it is . x Link to post Share on other sites
Author adorablebabiii Posted January 22, 2012 Author Share Posted January 22, 2012 Hi buttercup!!! yes its very hard.. he wanted a son.. I already had a 8 year old little girl... so i figured i would give him a son which he was all excited for!!! It was my fault because he says i "lied" to him so he no longer has trust for me. Ive gotten over having hope cause i know once trust is broken.. its almost impossible to get it back. But i dont understand why you call every single day.. or make some type of contact every day since we have broken up.. but its not about your son. Be mad at me all you want... but dont be mad at him...he didnt do anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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