LK30 Posted January 22, 2012 Share Posted January 22, 2012 Well since I wrote my original thread about meeting a girl who is youth worker at another youth centre I updated it by saying I added this 21 year old girl on FB as she was really pretty, and then I found out she had a bf. Despite this we carried on chatting and I met up with her once or twice. I was always surprised her bf was so lenient about us meeting and there was clearly some chemistry between us. Last week to my surprise she messaged me to say he and her bf had split up! It was him that ended it and she was adamant it wasn't due to me, but he said he felt they were drifting apart for ages and he fell out of love with her. I suppose that explains why he was so relaxed about her meeting up with me for drinks, and walks etc! Things were so much easier when they were together and I felt a bit gutted they'd split up. The other weird thing is I do have feelings for her but realistically a lot of it is just fantasy and we've exchanged about 10,000 FB messages in about 2 months just talking randomly! In the long run she wants to move to the other end of the country but I'm happy here. At the end of the day we got on well but we have quite different interests. She told me today due to the circumstances she's moving back to London (about 2 hours away) in March as she needs to get out of the flat she shared with her bf. I'm really cut up coz we've had some great times together and it strangely feels like we've split up with each other even though we weren't in a relationship!! It'll be hard to say goodbye, but I'm really upset and not sure what to think or do. Can someone please help? Link to post Share on other sites
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