health Posted January 26, 2012 Share Posted January 26, 2012 was in a 5 year plus relationship. I ended it cause she was emotionally cheating, and hooked up with said person 2 days later so i was right. I have been with 3 other girls since. But no major relationship. A girl just cancelled on me for this sat, and other girls on fb don't reply. I want a girl and I'm lost. They say they come when you don't look - tried that for a year - didn't work. They say you gotta put effort in didn't work. As soon as I sense a girl isn't givg me as much as I give her I run off. I will never give 70% and they give me crumbs. I'm just scared, cause I then read about people angry and lonely much older then me. Sometimes I feel like I don't need a relationship. Honestly I will not stand for anything but a healthy one. When I think of my ex I still get upset sometimes, How our long term thing was just thrown away. This is all on me and my responsibility anyways. I will find someone eventually. Any pointers for meeting women? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted January 26, 2012 Share Posted January 26, 2012 They say they come when you don't look - tried that for a year - didn't work. They say you gotta put effort in didn't work. Re-read that statement. If you're not looking for a relationship, and you don't get into one, that is working! On a serious note, my advice is keep working on yourself, and stop worrying about getting into a relationship. If you want to meet girls, talk to every single female that you find attractive. You don't have anything to lose and everything to gain by imploring this strategy. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted January 26, 2012 Share Posted January 26, 2012 I agree with what is written above. It doesn't seem like you are willing to take the bull by the horns. What do we truly lose by putting our intentions on the table? If someone rejects us, then we have avoided compatibility issues in the future caused by hiding and playing games at the start. Not only do we save time by going after what we want, but we also get to our goal faster. Link to post Share on other sites
Author health Posted January 26, 2012 Author Share Posted January 26, 2012 Re-read that statement. If you're not looking for a relationship, and you don't get into one, that is working! On a serious note, my advice is keep working on yourself, and stop worrying about getting into a relationship. If you want to meet girls, talk to every single female that you find attractive. You don't have anything to lose and everything to gain by imploring this strategy. Thank you and Philosoraptor so much, I agree. I will get back to you further when I come home from work. Make it a great day guys! Thanks again! Link to post Share on other sites
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