Serendipity034 Posted June 2, 2004 Share Posted June 2, 2004 [font=century gothic][/font] I have been broken up for a year... My ex was cheating on me for two months and when I started getting suspicious and started asking questions he broke up with me... He is now with that girl... Problem is, I work with him.. it is horrible, to see him every day... What started to happen half a year ago, is that he started calling me more.. hugging me.. coming on to me... inviting me over his house and going places with me.... we even slept together... more than once.. until I stopped it... he says it is not cheating because I am his ex & he is not really married to this girl.. now I care, and dont really wish to be a side woman... I am confused that he wants to do all these things with me but he is still dating her... The thing is, I dont even feel bad for her that he is cheating on her... perhaps mean that I am.. but she saw no problem being with him when he was my bf... I am sure she would freak out if she found out.. but she is being some kind of a hypocrite .. she stole my bf.. well i am sure he didnt object.. but still.. I dont know what to do.. at the moment.. I told him to stay away from me... because I dont want to be, as I said on the side somewhere.... Link to post Share on other sites
DerangedAngel Posted June 3, 2004 Share Posted June 3, 2004 he says it is not cheating because I am his ex & he is not really married to this girl.. What the f*ck? That's hilarious, but sad at the same time. You need to stay far away from this guy. Why? Because if you were to ever get back together with him, what's to stop him from sleeping with another one of his ex's? After all, "that's not cheating". Oh my God. It's worse! He has emotional ties with you. The thing is, I dont even feel bad for her that he is cheating on her... perhaps mean that I am.. but she saw no problem being with him when he was my bf... I am sure she would freak out if she found out.. but she is being some kind of a hypocrite .. she stole my bf.. Did she know that he had a girlfriend (you) for sure? Regardless, I feel sorry for her. And for you. Definitely not for him. Once you do the same things that she did, sorry, but you have no right to judge her. My opinion. Cut your losses. Move on. He's an @$$hole. -Deranged Link to post Share on other sites
Author Serendipity034 Posted June 4, 2004 Author Share Posted June 4, 2004 Yeah she knew... I found her SN on my exs computer and spoke to her.. when I asked her when they started dating.. she told me in March.. when he broke up with me in April.. end of April... then she said, now that you know.. stop calling him & stay away from him.. which is messed up, because he is the one who was calling me all the time.. since I work with him I didnt start an argument.. perhaps I should have.. I just didnt want to argue at work with him all the time.. then she didnt know we worked together.. because when I said its hard to stay away from him when I work with him, plus I got him the job in the first place.. she freaked out.... and he had the nerve to call me and yell at me.. telling me that I am a bitch and I ruined his relationship.. and that she doesnt trust him now.. he did all that to me and wanted me to be considerate.. can you believe it? And her telling me not to call him.. it did not really stop her from calling and hanging out with him when she knew very well he had a gf.. what a hypocrite! Link to post Share on other sites
princess rose Posted June 5, 2004 Share Posted June 5, 2004 Serendipity: Don't even worry yourself about either one of them, and let them go and be dysfunctional togther. Link to post Share on other sites
smudge Posted June 6, 2004 Share Posted June 6, 2004 I didn't read this post and replied to other post! stop stop stop! do not get back to sleeping with him and cheating because the girl did it to you. even though she and he both deserve the worst...you are just giving him what he wants...to play her and you, without any strings or a real relationship. stop it!! get out asap and just ignore him at work, the sooner you get away the sooner you move on. he is doing nothing but keeping you from something better. the drama is too much and will bring you bad kharma. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Serendipity034 Posted June 7, 2004 Author Share Posted June 7, 2004 I am trying to do just that.. when he calls I say I am busy.. when he invites me over.. I say I just dont want to... he starts talking me into it, that he will give me pleasure and etc etc... I just ignore him.. tell him I am busy... because it is really killing me.. I dont want to just sleep with him.. and not willing to be his .. I dont know what you may even call it.. now he tells me she is on jury duty for two weeks... i was wondering why he started inviting me over out of no where.. he said it has nothing to do with it.. but I might be stupid.. but I am definately not that stupid... I decided that he is happy.. he hurt me and he is happy.. she .. well.. dont even want to talk about that empty space.. but still it hurts and he acts all nice to me.. and that hurts as well.. and you are right.. I think he is keeping me from better things... because he wont let me get over him... I am going to try.. Link to post Share on other sites
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