when people online say you have a crap personality

[danmorisson]

Is it arrogance?

 

It must be, because my personality is so good that I sort of get 'special treament' from most of the popular guys where I live, and from old school classmates in other towns. They view me as some sort of 'symbol of innocence' and 'maturity'... It's like they treat me differently because I'm like a mirror image of what they would like to be, on the inside, and they look to me for some sort of temporary escape from that 'social constructed badboy image', like they show a more 'humane' side of themselves around me... I see another side to them that others don't get to see

 

And I complain online a lot because I've never even had any female friends before, the females are different, they don't seem to care what I'm like on the inside, their attitude is "I will never be your friend, you're way to ugly, so get yourself carted"

Edited February 3, 2012 by danmorisson

[PelicanPete]

Yea you're right dan I can be a pretty arrogant SOB. I never had the privilege to explore the endless chasms and complexities of your brilliant personality, which in itself is a definite loss.

 

I'm sure getting to know you better would be the equivalent of reaching nirvana, but I'm just gonna have to learn how to struggle through life without your enlightening input.

 

If I start now, with a lot of hard work, I may be able to reach half the understanding you're functioning at, sometime in my lifetime. From what I've read of your posts on here, you're a real inspiring and gifted person.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Did that bother you?

 

Grow a thicker skin, toughen up. Don't let some anonymous person define who you are. People are gonna say some crappy things to you in life, it's your responsibility to deal with it in a healthy manner. After all, you bring meaning to what they say. Learn to control your emotions.

Edited February 3, 2012 by PelicanPete

[danmorisson]

That's ok, I know for a fact that I have a great personality, I speak the truth, and I mention things that people constantly overlook, and these crappy personalities everywhere get pissed off because I'm placing what they would call 'higher beings' on the same level as us mere 'nobodies'

 

A great personality has never counted when it comes to dating anyway. If you're popular, it's usually because you're an *******, not because you have a 'good' personality' (or great personality I should say)

 

I know a 'good looking' guy where I live and he's been a bully all his life, cruel to animals, you name it, it never put a dent on his popularity with the women

Edited February 3, 2012 by danmorisson
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[danmorisson]

I've always argued that females have the personality very close to that of a serial killer, just very close to some sort of psychopath, and I'm just sitting here, patiently waiting for a scientific documentary to come along and prove me right about this one as well

 

Because most women out there just don't give two rats ass what her mate is like on the inside, in fact, from my own experience, just sitting back and analyzing, the more deranged and ouright depraved a man is, the more popular he will become among the females, he will have loads (and I mean loads) of females around him

Edited February 3, 2012 by danmorisson

[silvermane187]

Seek professional help.

[xisnotx]

Online is like open season for the haters. Ignore everything you read on here.

 

And you probably get special treatment in real life because you're attractive. Pretty people don't need good personalities...

[gaius]

I'm pretty into psychology and your post just flew right over my head. I do know girls are easy to make friends with, even if you are ugly and don't talk much. A lot of them enjoy a guy who will just listen to them talk with only the occasional comment. Perhaps your issues with women run deeper then you realize.