purplehouse Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 My boyfriend and i got together in July 2011. We had previsouly worked for the same company which is how we knew eahother. Things were pretty wonderful for about 3 months ( as they usually are) The last two months we were together things went sour and we were starting to have little arguments mostly because i fetl like i was doing all of the work. So we broke up early december and after 6 weeks of strict no contact i noticed on his facebook page that he had 'liked' a song that we used to always used to listen to. We ended up back in contact and he came over and we talked and had a fun night together. He asked me what he could to to be a better boyfriend and we talked about trying again. Since then we have been back together and things are going pretty well. The break up gave us some time to reflect on what we want etc. The thing is last time we were together he used to say i love you, this time though he hasn't yet. i don't mind, i really dont. I mean i know that i do love him but i also believe there is no rush to say it. I just am curious as to why he would say it last time but not now... does this mean he has taken it back or just being cautious..he did say that i mean everything to him. Link to post Share on other sites
cerridwen Posted February 7, 2012 Share Posted February 7, 2012 I vote for him just feeling cautious and wanting to be more deliberate and conscientious about things. If you broke up in December, didn't speak for 6 weeks...you haven't been reconciled for very long. Give it more time. Let it happen naturally. Having a man say "you mean everything to me" is quite something. Hold onto that for now. I'm sure "I love you" is coming. Link to post Share on other sites
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