Cheating in a marriage is what makes the marriage work...

[2long]

For the exact reason you just said "it's unacceptable" and you would "divorce her so fast".

 

And this keeps you from being truthful... ...why?

 

In all probability, divorce would be the best thing for her. It certainly would be best for her BH and kids.

 

-ol' 2long

[Toodamnpragmatic]

Troll post or not, the fact is this mentality and these ideas exist. I don't see harm in exploring them.

 

OMG (now I'm abbreviating like a teen)..... Are you that dense & naive???? Sure and that is why men see escorts, hookers and go to strip joints. We're all that shallow and vacuous.....

 

FS you are missing the point entirely..... I'd focus on figuring out why you have such a screwed up view about men, sex, relationships and orgasms....

 

I don't think anyone on LS can help you.....

[FrustratedStandards]

Sounds like something you should discuss with your H. Perhaps something you should have a sit down discussion with you, your sister, and both your husbands to discuss, perhaps?

 

After all, no harm in exploring them, right?

 

Then there shouldn't be any possible reason not to openly discuss the ideas with those people you love most, and would be most impacted by these choices and discussions, right?

 

I'm not married. I don't know if you've read my previous posts, I don't believe in marriage and don't want to get married.

 

OMG (now I'm abbreviating like a teen)..... Are you that dense & naive???? Sure and that is why men see escorts, hookers and go to strip joints. We're all that shallow and vacuous.....

 

People are so dumb these days. Exploring the idea as in talking about it. I guess not a lot of people understand the concept of conversation these days.

 

You sound very uptight.

 

Have you tried having a couple of glasses of wine or smoking a joint before trying to have sex? It might help loosen you up a little and enjoy things a bit more.

 

I have tried drinking beforehand yes, but that keeps me from getting properly lubricated. I have never tried that with marijuana. Frankly, it makes me sleepy so I don't think that would work

 

Have you ever tried making love to a woman?

 

Eeek. I have never considered that and I don't think I ever will. Don't swing that way.

[GG2W]

Go ahead and label me a troll.

 

The truth is that I joined LS 2 years ago just to provide a glimpse into what takes place a part of the real world that most husbands know nothing about. It is a sexed charged atmosphere with with plenty of liquid refreshment. And other than the paid help it is women only, so most men have no idea what is going on behind those closed doors.

 

My score for tonight was two. And I know of at least 3 others who broke their vows tonight. And that does not include the male bartender and bouncers

 

As for being a male prostitute. I work for tips.

 

But I do get a kick knowing that they are generously tipping me some of their husband's hard earned money.

 

Number one was a tip for letting a ring provide me with oral between sets.

 

As for the 300, after second thoughts it is probably too low, as I forgot about the private batchlorette parties, where they all have to have a taste

Edited February 16, 2012 by GG2W

[Lostinlife4now]

GG2W.... I did not think you were a troll! I have to say I like your honesty.

 

I am sure you can write many a story of what goes on in the clubs.....

 

There are alot of lonely married women out there and I guess you are providing a service!!!

[The Blue Knight]

Go ahead and label me a troll.

 

The truth is that I joined LS 2 years ago just to provide a glimpse into what takes place a part of the real world that most husbands know nothing about. It is a sexed charged atmosphere with with plenty of liquid refreshment. And other than the paid help it is women only, so most men have no idea what is going on behind those closed doors.

 

My score for tonight was two. And I know of at least 3 others who broke their vows tonight.And that does not include the male bartender and bouncers

 

As for being a male prostitute. I work for tips.

 

But I do get a kick knowing that they are generously tipping me some of their husband's hard earned money.

 

Number one was a tip for letting a ring provide me with oral between sets.

 

As for the 300, after second thoughts it is probably too low, as I forgot about the private batchlorette parties, where they all have to have a taste

 

You know, I had to ignore your previous sexual tryst resume posting consisting of "what a great lay I am" because I didn't think you'd get it if I responded anyway, but this second one I'm not ignoring.

 

#1. Thanks for allowing us into your "real world view of married women in bad relationships." We'd never know that this world exists without your deep undercover insights! And I think I speak for everyone here when I say that we all appreciate the deeply committed sociological work that you're doing and the selfless efforts you put forth. The fact that you prey on women who are in various stages of unfulfilled relationships or who are just plain hurting psychologically or otherwise says a great deal about what type of person you are. Oh, I know, I know. You're just there doing the job of stripping and they are the ones asking for it . . . In essence, you're actually a victim I'm sure

 

#2. Bachelorette isn't spelled with the prefix "batch" like a group of cookies out of the oven. If you're going to attend all those private parties and provide all the ladies "with a taste", at least learn how to spell it correctly there studly. Also, it's not psychologically healthy to describe yourself like a food group in the third person.

 

#3. I happen to have a good friend who went to school with a guy who does stripping on the side. Each of you is cut from the same cloth. You're the guys who can't take your eyes off the mirrors at the gym because you're convinced that what you see in the mirror can't possibly be replaced, it's just that good. I have no doubt that you ask yourself, "how did the world get by before I was born?" It's a self-love thing otherwise known as narcissism. Look it up sometime. Maybe you and the OP can get a two for one deal on a shrink.

 

#4. It's clear that you're a secular-minded individual who believes that you were put in this earth to satisfy women, and we really do thank you for it! I mean, it can't be easy being you and having to serve all of those lonely women each night. Just the same, for your sake I hope that the Biblical God is indeed not real because I'm sure He has a very accurate count of the adulterous misbehavings you've lost track of. If you appear in front of Him, I seriously doubt that you'll be holding out your "who I screwed yesterday" resume for all to see like you have here. But just the same, at least you have one thing in life to be proud of while you're here with us.

 

#5. If you have a woman providing you with "oral between sets" I seriously doubt that most decent men are going to envy you. I'm sure some of your buddies think you're just it, but I'm also sure that they are cut from the same filthy rags that you are. She is what we call in society a whore. There's a reason that they are labeled that way. Oh, there are male whore's as well. But that one I don't have to explain to you.

 

#6. Eventually your lifestyle will catch up with you because they typically do if you stay in the biz long enough. Either the fact that you're "sticking it every where" is going to get you a nice case of the STDs, (assuming you haven't been treated already a few times), or one of those women's husbands "who's hard earned money is going into your male panties" is going to catch up with you when you're least expecting it and put a scum-ball like you out of your misery. It will be a tragic blow to society when that happens, but somehow, we'll survive.

[JazzyFox]

The truth is, I have never been with a man that I was truly sexually attracted too. I'm VERY picky, which doesn't help. The men I am sexually attracted to immediately drop in attractiveness when they open their mouth. Stupidity is a huge turn off. The men that do pass in those aspects (great conversation, lots in common) I have trouble touching them. They just are NOT attractive. That when you "friend zone" them. They are great guys, but not attractive. For me it's always been one extreme or the other. I have yet to meet a good looking guy who is also SMART. Do they exist?

 

I know how you feel. I too, thought it was me. I was too difficult, too demanding, too uptight. From the inability to find someone who was both attractive AND smart, to the inability to let myself go and fall in love, to the inability to orgasm with my partner ... I've been through the same roller coaster of emotions.

 

Perhaps my story will not apply to you, but in the possibility of giving you some hope ... I found him. As soon as I let go of the anxiety of being single, and losing myself into the distractions of work and hobbies... As soon as I decided to live each day to its best potential, and open my heart to whatever happens ... As soon as I accepted that it might take years, even decades, for me to find what I was looking for ... As soon as this happened, fate handed me a card.

 

It wasn't always easy, and I still sometimes struggle with the major changes it has had in my life. But this man, my man, rocks my world. He is absolutely the sexiest thing I have ever seen, his smell and the texture of his skin drives me insane, he constantly stuns me with his ideas and strategies and knowledge. I am smitten, and have been since the day we met.

 

Because of who he is, and because of who I am when we are together, I feel completely safe, loved, cherished, adored. And that means, that in bed, things that were never possible, have now become almost routine.

 

So I am here to say, it will happen. Forget your templates, checklists and preconceived ideas. Forget your milestones and expectations. Open your heart, and when the time is right, you will meet him.

 

He is out there.

 

P.S. If I had told myself this 2 years ago, I would never have believed it.