bryan Posted September 27, 2000 Share Posted September 27, 2000 i'd posted here a bit earlier. i broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months back. well like anyone who has ever broken up will tell you, they were not the most pleasant 2 months. anyway, i thiink i have made a lot of progress in terms of getting her of my mind. i only think about her ocasionally now but when i do its still hurts a lot. i recently met another girl who i've grown fond off also. is it in everyone's opinion time that i started dating again or does one start only when even the last fragments of an ex are not there in your brain? that would be hard though since she is a part of my past and she will always be there. Link to post Share on other sites
Heather Posted September 27, 2000 Share Posted September 27, 2000 Only you will know when you are healed enough to start dating. How long were you and this girl together? If it was a long term relationship then it will definitely take longer to heal and if you were truly in love then you are right that person will probably always be in your heart. My opinion is to keep hanging out with this new girl and other friends. Don't let yourself get too attatched to this new girl until you know you are ready. Give yourself sometime to heal, don't start another serious relationship and by all means don't let this new girl stop you from meeting other people. Well I wish you the best of luck! Heather i'd posted here a bit earlier. i broke up with my girlfriend about 2 months back. well like anyone who has ever broken up will tell you, they were not the most pleasant 2 months. anyway, i thiink i have made a lot of progress in terms of getting her of my mind. i only think about her ocasionally now but when i do its still hurts a lot. i recently met another girl who i've grown fond off also. is it in everyone's opinion time that i started dating again or does one start only when even the last fragments of an ex are not there in your brain? that would be hard though since she is a part of my past and she will always be there. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted September 27, 2000 Share Posted September 27, 2000 You are the one to best decide this issue. If you feel you can go out, have fun, and not mix emotions you have for your ex with this new lady or others, go for it. You can only put your life on hold for so long. Maybe someone new will help you understand the past is over. Just be careful, take a good inventory of your feelings, and don't break this new girl's heart because she may be a rebound. You are the only one in the world who can decide for yourself on how you want to deal with this new lady...and with the past. Link to post Share on other sites
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