spanky Posted June 3, 2004 Share Posted June 3, 2004 Help!!! My boyfriend broke up with me 1 month ago on Mother's Day because my feelings were too extreme for him. I have been missing him terribly and desperately wanted him back. I fell in love and he didn't. Well, I backed off and ceased all communication with him for the past two weeks. He called this morning and he wants to get together this week sometime, before he leaves for an eight week deployment. WHAT DOES HE WANT????? I'm wondering if there is a way for me to work the situation so that he'll come back to me on his hands and knees. I've been dating but nothing serious and have finally steadied out my emotions as far as he was concerned. What does he want? What does he want? AHHHHHHH!! MEN!!! Spanks Link to post Share on other sites
She's Come Undone Posted June 3, 2004 Share Posted June 3, 2004 Why don't you just ask him? Seriously. I think after what you've gone through emotionally with him, you have every right to question him as to what he wants to see you about. There is no reason for you to sit here wondering. 1. What if it's "nothing big" and you have been freaking out for nothing. 2. What if it's something that will cause you more pain, and you could have told him before you met that you'd rather not talk to him. No one has the right to set you up without you being made aware the topic of conversation. So just ask him "in what is this reference to?" Then be strong, if he says he'd rather not say, then you say, well I'd rather not see you. I know easier said... Link to post Share on other sites
organic chemistry Posted June 3, 2004 Share Posted June 3, 2004 i guessed i had same problem with u... i backed off and ceased all communication too...coz i think i can do better than constantly begging...right? when i was begging....we were reacting so badly....we had horrible feeling... he was really sick on monday and he asked me to take him to the hospital... we had great time...felt free to talk...no hostage feelings...he remembered my b.day is coming up... that night...we ended up having sex....and he was so gd,caring.... but the next day...he freaked out again...he freaked out becoz of his feeling i guess.... and resumed his horrible attitude.... i guess....i got 2 cut communication again.... i think i overreact when he called me....maybe he really just wanna be friends...but again...i have seen guy like him freak out becoz of the imtimacy.... Link to post Share on other sites
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