davyboy Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 I brokeup yesterday with my baby of close to 4yrs,we have been exchanging emails,ive told her how much i love her and that she means the world to me,but shes just so cold with me,its like shes a totally different person :S ive said all the nicest and romantic things anyone could say,and still theres nothing to suggest she has any feelings for me,or even loves me anymore,im here thinking of her all the time,i even feel like just going over and knocking on her door and trying from there,or would that be a mistake ? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
oldguy Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 No, communication is all it sounds like you have & face to face is the best as long as you can remain calm & rational. There is much more to your story, as long as you know that's all that's important. Link to post Share on other sites
Frank13 Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 If she is cold and there is nothing to suggest she had feelings for you or loves you anymore, what would be the purpose of going over and knocking on her door? If anything you need to go no contact and let her miss you. You can read many many posts on here that going to her will only push her further away. Link to post Share on other sites
Chs Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 If she is acting cold it pretty much means that right now she does not want to be with you. I can assure you no love stops over night, and even if she is hiding it or convinced herself she doesen't love you she does. But she is most likely not in love anymore the same way. But she seem to have made up her mind, and when girl's do that it's very hard if not impossible to change her decision. Im not gonna be the one to tell you to leave her alone. Just be careful you don't hold on until she has moved on, because then you have to go through the hardest part knowing she already has. Link to post Share on other sites
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